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|    W.Dockery to HarryLime    |
|    Re: My Father's House / gjd (for new com    |
|    24 Feb 25 19:57:35    |
      [continued from previous message]              >> the details of Dickens's own life to find parallels with the events of       >> the novel.       >       > That's right, George. I never implied it was otherwise.       >       >       >> Second, I'm not aware of any real or pretend Dickens scholar,       >> besides you, has ever suggested that every character in David       >> Copperfield (from clara to Murdstone to the keeper) is really an       >> "aspect" of Charles Dickens.       >       > Then I suggest that you read a little more. Clara and Murdstone were       > based upon people from Dickens' life (Clara was based on his       > housekeeper, and Dickens' stepfather was named George Murdstone). His       > depictions of them represent his feelings toward the individuals they       > are based on.       >       >       >>> IOW: The more you've chosen to fictionalize, color, or otherwise alter       >>> the event of your childhood, the more valuable your poem becomes as a       >>> tool for psychoanalysis.       >>       >>       >>       >>       >>       >>       >>>>> This is why your perception of Dr. NancyGene's and my analyses of your       >>>>> poem strike you as personal attacks, whereas from my perspective the       >>>>> *only* way to examine a semi-autobiographical poem on child abuse is       >>>>> consider the speaker and the poet as being essentially the same       >>>>> individual.       >>>>       >>>> Well, no, HarryLiar, I "interpret" your comments on the poem, and "Dr."       >>>> NastyGoon's as personal attacks because you use them for personal       >>>> attacks.       >>>       >>> And you wonder why we have diagnosed you as suffering from a persecution       >>> complex!       >>>       >>>> A good example is your opening paragraph that I quoted, where       >>>> you use your account of the poem, plus your misinterpretation of       >>>> something else I'd said, to call me a "pathological liar".       >>>       >>> No, George. I call you a pathological liar because you have shown       >>> yourself to be one time and time again. "Pathological liar" is a       >>> personality characteristic that one accepts as a "given" when opening       >>> any psychoanalytical discussion on you.       >>>       >>>       >>>> The more you       >>>> try to pretend comments like that that are not personal attacks, but       >>>> just comments on a poem, the harder it is to believe anything you say.       >>>       >>> I can't make you believe it, George. Most patients experience an       >>> initial sense of distrust regarding their analyst; coupled with a sense       >>> of resistance and denial. Unfortunately, it is extremely difficult to       >>> gain a patient's trust in an online forum -- especially when the patient       >>> is suffering from a persecution complex with accompanying feelings of       >>> paranoia.       >>>       >>>>> In fact, Karla's oft-quoted adage aside, one can *never* fully separate       >>>>> the two.       >>>>> For instance, all of the characters in any author's fictional novel are       >>>>> going to represent some aspect of the author. Every poem stems from its       >>>>> author's imagination... regardless of what external persons and/or       >>>>> events might have inspired it.       >>>>       >>>> That sounds like another contradiction to me. Previously you said that       >>>> "every" character in a novel represents an aspect of the author, and now       >>>> you admit that at least some are actually inspired by other people.       >>>       >>> I've admitted no such thing. I clearly restated my opinion that "all of       >>> the characters in any author's fictional novel are going to represent       >>> some aspect of the author."       >>       >> And you also clearly restated that authors can create imaginary,       >> characters using observation and imagination. Make up your mind: is an       >> author restricted to writing about himself, or can he write about people       >> and events that have nothing to do with him?       >       > It isn't an either-or situation, George. Reality is more complicated       > than that.       >       > Perhaps this will help you to understand: It has been pointed out that       > no purely fantastical creatures, places, or things have ever been       > depicted in fiction (or in dreams, etc.). It has further been posited       > that purely fantastic beings are *beyond the capability* of the human       > mind.       >       > For instance, a unicorn is a cross between a horse (or a goat) and an       > antelope. A hobbit is pretty much a short human with hairy feet.       > Chitty-chitty-bang-bang is an anthropomorphic car that can fly. Every       > fantastic or supernatural thing humans have ever imagined is simply a       > cross between two or more already existing things.       >       > So, yes. I writer can use his imagination to create a fictional       > character or plot -- but everything about the character and plot are       > going to be drawn from things that the writer has already experienced       > (or read about).       >       > As a horror writer, some of my characters do some pretty terrible       > things. These are things that I have never done, and have no plans of       > ever doing. Some are fantasies of things that *a part of me* would like       > to do; others are things that I find absolutely appalling. Both are       > glimpses into my psyche (I fantasize about A, I deplore B).       >       >>> And again, I can only repeat that the more a poem utilizes creative       >>> imagination in its retelling of past events from your life, the more       >>> valuable it becomes as a tool for understanding your psyche.       >>       >> That sounds similar to your claim that, the more a real or pretend       >> patient does not agree with a real or pretend "analyst's" opinions, that       >> only proves the analyst's opinions are correct, because it's evidence       >> that the patient is repressing "the truth" and is in "denial." There's       >> no arguing with someone who thinks it's true by definition that their       >> every opinion is "the unvarnished truth", and no point in trying.       >       > I have never said such a thing, George. A patient can certainly be in       > denial, but that doesn't mean that *every* point of disagreement with       > his psychologist is an example of denial. You are trying to make       > another black and white absolute out of the extremely complex science of       > psychology.       >       >       >> |
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