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|    W.Dockery to HarryLime    |
|    Re: My Father's House / gjd (for new com    |
|    24 Feb 25 21:37:03    |
      [continued from previous message]              >>>>> "David Copperfield" is a highly fictionalized account of Charles       >>>>> Dickens' childhood and young manhood. And his biographers, rightly,       >>>>> refer to it when describing parallel incidents from his life. It is       >>>>> *because* "David Copperfield" is a fictionalized account of Dickens'       >>>>> early life as seen through *his* eyes, to present *his* perception of       >>>>> himself that it is so valuable a tool for discovering who Dickens really       >>>>> was.       >>>>       >>>> First off, biographers of Dickens do not simply conclude that the events       >>>> of David Copperfield happened to Dickens simply by doing a       >>>> "psychoanalysis" of the book - they actually do some work, and research       >>>> the details of Dickens's own life to find parallels with the events of       >>>> the novel.       >>>       >>> That's right, George. I never implied it was otherwise.       >>>       >>>       >>>> Second, I'm not aware of any real or pretend Dickens scholar,       >>>> besides you, has ever suggested that every character in David       >>>> Copperfield (from clara to Murdstone to the keeper) is really an       >>>> "aspect" of Charles Dickens.       >>>       >>> Then I suggest that you read a little more. Clara and Murdstone were       >>> based upon people from Dickens' life (Clara was based on his       >>> housekeeper, and Dickens' stepfather was named George Murdstone). His       >>> depictions of them represent his feelings toward the individuals they       >>> are based on.       >>>       >>>       >>>>> IOW: The more you've chosen to fictionalize, color, or otherwise alter       >>>>> the event of your childhood, the more valuable your poem becomes as a       >>>>> tool for psychoanalysis.       >>>>       >>>>       >>>>       >>>>       >>>>       >>>>       >>>>>>> This is why your perception of Dr. NancyGene's and my analyses of your       >>>>>>> poem strike you as personal attacks, whereas from my perspective the       >>>>>>> *only* way to examine a semi-autobiographical poem on child abuse is       >>>>>>> consider the speaker and the poet as being essentially the same       >>>>>>> individual.       >>>>>>       >>>>>> Well, no, HarryLiar, I "interpret" your comments on the poem, and "Dr."       >>>>>> NastyGoon's as personal attacks because you use them for personal       >>>>>> attacks.       >>>>>       >>>>> And you wonder why we have diagnosed you as suffering from a persecution       >>>>> complex!       >>>>>       >>>>>> A good example is your opening paragraph that I quoted, where       >>>>>> you use your account of the poem, plus your misinterpretation of       >>>>>> something else I'd said, to call me a "pathological liar".       >>>>>       >>>>> No, George. I call you a pathological liar because you have shown       >>>>> yourself to be one time and time again. "Pathological liar" is a       >>>>> personality characteristic that one accepts as a "given" when opening       >>>>> any psychoanalytical discussion on you.       >>>>>       >>>>>       >>>>>> The more you       >>>>>> try to pretend comments like that that are not personal attacks, but       >>>>>> just comments on a poem, the harder it is to believe anything you say.       >>>>>       >>>>> I can't make you believe it, George. Most patients experience an       >>>>> initial sense of distrust regarding their analyst; coupled with a sense       >>>>> of resistance and denial. Unfortunately, it is extremely difficult to       >>>>> gain a patient's trust in an online forum -- especially when the patient       >>>>> is suffering from a persecution complex with accompanying feelings of       >>>>> paranoia.       >>>>>       >>>>>>> In fact, Karla's oft-quoted adage aside, one can *never* fully separate       >>>>>>> the two.       >>>>>>> For instance, all of the characters in any author's fictional novel are       >>>>>>> going to represent some aspect of the author. Every poem stems from       its       >>>>>>> author's imagination... regardless of what external persons and/or       >>>>>>> events might have inspired it.       >>>>>>       >>>>>> That sounds like another contradiction to me. Previously you said that       >>>>>> "every" character in a novel represents an aspect of the author, and now       >>>>>> you admit that at least some are actually inspired by other people.       >>>>>       >>>>> I've admitted no such thing. I clearly restated my opinion that "all of       >>>>> the characters in any author's fictional novel are going to represent       >>>>> some aspect of the author."       >>>>       >>>> And you also clearly restated that authors can create imaginary,       >>>> characters using observation and imagination. Make up your mind: is an       >>>> author restricted to writing about himself, or can he write about people       >>>> and events that have nothing to do with him?       >>>       >>> It isn't an either-or situation, George. Reality is more complicated       >>> than that.       >>>       >>> Perhaps this will help you to understand: It has been pointed out that       >>> no purely fantastical creatures, places, or things have ever been       >>> depicted in fiction (or in dreams, etc.). It has further been posited       >>> that purely fantastic beings are *beyond the capability* of the human       >>> mind.       >>>       >>> For instance, a unicorn is a cross between a horse (or a goat) and an       >>> antelope. A hobbit is pretty much a short human with hairy feet.       >>> Chitty-chitty-bang-bang is an anthropomorphic car that can fly. Every       >>> fantastic or supernatural thing humans have ever imagined is simply a       >>> cross between two or more already existing things.       >>>       >>> So, yes. I writer can use his imagination to create a fictional       >>> character or plot -- but everything about the character and plot are       >>> going to be drawn from things that the writer has already experienced       >>> (or read about).       >>>       >>> As a horror writer, some of my characters do some pretty terrible       >>> things. These are things that I have never done, and have no plans of       >>> ever doing. Some are fantasies of things that *a part of me* would like       >>> to do; others are things that I find absolutely appalling. Both are       >>> glimpses into my psyche (I fantasize about A, I deplore B).       >>>       >>>>> And again, I can only repeat that the more a poem utilizes creative       >>>>> imagination in its retelling of past events from your life, the more       >>>>> valuable it becomes as a tool for understanding your psyche.       >>>>       >>>> That sounds similar to your claim that, the more a real or pretend       >>>> patient does not agree with a real or pretend "analyst's" opinions, that       >>>> only proves the analyst's opinions are correct, because it's evidence       >>>> that the patient is repressing "the truth" and is in "denial." There's       >>>> no arguing with someone who thinks it's true by definition that their       >>>> every opinion is "the unvarnished truth", and no point in trying.       >>>       >>> I have never said such a thing, George. A patient can certainly be in       >>> denial, but that doesn't mean that *every* point of disagreement with       >>> his psychologist is an example of denial. You are trying to make       >>> another black and white absolute out of the extremely complex science of       >>> psychology.       >>>       >>>       >>>> |
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