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|    HarryLime to W.Dockery    |
|    Re: My Father's House / gjd (for new com    |
|    24 Feb 25 21:53:29    |
      [continued from previous message]              >>>> I hope that isn't too complicated for you to grasp (as you seem unable       >>>> to grasp any concept that doesn't limit itself to black and white,       >>>> either/or terms).       >>>>       >>>> "Semi-autobiographic" means partially based on the author's life.       >>>> A fictional book is not based on the author's life, but could contain       >>>> semi-autobiographic elements.       >>>>       >>>>       >>>>>> "David Copperfield" is a highly fictionalized account of Charles       >>>>>> Dickens' childhood and young manhood. And his biographers, rightly,       >>>>>> refer to it when describing parallel incidents from his life. It is       >>>>>> *because* "David Copperfield" is a fictionalized account of Dickens'       >>>>>> early life as seen through *his* eyes, to present *his* perception of       >>>>>> himself that it is so valuable a tool for discovering who Dickens really       >>>>>> was.       >>>>>       >>>>> First off, biographers of Dickens do not simply conclude that the events       >>>>> of David Copperfield happened to Dickens simply by doing a       >>>>> "psychoanalysis" of the book - they actually do some work, and research       >>>>> the details of Dickens's own life to find parallels with the events of       >>>>> the novel.       >>>>       >>>> That's right, George. I never implied it was otherwise.       >>>>       >>>>       >>>>> Second, I'm not aware of any real or pretend Dickens scholar,       >>>>> besides you, has ever suggested that every character in David       >>>>> Copperfield (from clara to Murdstone to the keeper) is really an       >>>>> "aspect" of Charles Dickens.       >>>>       >>>> Then I suggest that you read a little more. Clara and Murdstone were       >>>> based upon people from Dickens' life (Clara was based on his       >>>> housekeeper, and Dickens' stepfather was named George Murdstone). His       >>>> depictions of them represent his feelings toward the individuals they       >>>> are based on.       >>>>       >>>>       >>>>>> IOW: The more you've chosen to fictionalize, color, or otherwise alter       >>>>>> the event of your childhood, the more valuable your poem becomes as a       >>>>>> tool for psychoanalysis.       >>>>>       >>>>>       >>>>>       >>>>>       >>>>>       >>>>>       >>>>>>>> This is why your perception of Dr. NancyGene's and my analyses of your       >>>>>>>> poem strike you as personal attacks, whereas from my perspective the       >>>>>>>> *only* way to examine a semi-autobiographical poem on child abuse is       >>>>>>>> consider the speaker and the poet as being essentially the same       >>>>>>>> individual.       >>>>>>>       >>>>>>> Well, no, HarryLiar, I "interpret" your comments on the poem, and "Dr."       >>>>>>> NastyGoon's as personal attacks because you use them for personal       >>>>>>> attacks.       >>>>>>       >>>>>> And you wonder why we have diagnosed you as suffering from a persecution       >>>>>> complex!       >>>>>>       >>>>>>> A good example is your opening paragraph that I quoted, where       >>>>>>> you use your account of the poem, plus your misinterpretation of       >>>>>>> something else I'd said, to call me a "pathological liar".       >>>>>>       >>>>>> No, George. I call you a pathological liar because you have shown       >>>>>> yourself to be one time and time again. "Pathological liar" is a       >>>>>> personality characteristic that one accepts as a "given" when opening       >>>>>> any psychoanalytical discussion on you.       >>>>>>       >>>>>>       >>>>>>> The more you       >>>>>>> try to pretend comments like that that are not personal attacks, but       >>>>>>> just comments on a poem, the harder it is to believe anything you say.       >>>>>>       >>>>>> I can't make you believe it, George. Most patients experience an       >>>>>> initial sense of distrust regarding their analyst; coupled with a sense       >>>>>> of resistance and denial. Unfortunately, it is extremely difficult to       >>>>>> gain a patient's trust in an online forum -- especially when the patient       >>>>>> is suffering from a persecution complex with accompanying feelings of       >>>>>> paranoia.       >>>>>>       >>>>>>>> In fact, Karla's oft-quoted adage aside, one can *never* fully       separate       >>>>>>>> the two.       >>>>>>>> For instance, all of the characters in any author's fictional novel       are       >>>>>>>> going to represent some aspect of the author. Every poem stems from       its       >>>>>>>> author's imagination... regardless of what external persons and/or       >>>>>>>> events might have inspired it.       >>>>>>>       >>>>>>> That sounds like another contradiction to me. Previously you said that       >>>>>>> "every" character in a novel represents an aspect of the author, and       now       >>>>>>> you admit that at least some are actually inspired by other people.       >>>>>>       >>>>>> I've admitted no such thing. I clearly restated my opinion that "all of       >>>>>> the characters in any author's fictional novel are going to represent       >>>>>> some aspect of the author."       >>>>>       >>>>> And you also clearly restated that authors can create imaginary,       >>>>> characters using observation and imagination. Make up your mind: is an       >>>>> author restricted to writing about himself, or can he write about people       >>>>> and events that have nothing to do with him?       >>>>       >>>> It isn't an either-or situation, George. Reality is more complicated       >>>> than that.       >>>>       >>>> Perhaps this will help you to understand: It has been pointed out that       >>>> no purely fantastical creatures, places, or things have ever been       >>>> depicted in fiction (or in dreams, etc.). It has further been posited       >>>> that purely fantastic beings are *beyond the capability* of the human       >>>> mind.       >>>>       >>>> For instance, a unicorn is a cross between a horse (or a goat) and an       >>>> antelope. A hobbit is pretty much a short human with hairy feet.       >>>> Chitty-chitty-bang-bang is an anthropomorphic car that can fly. Every       >>>> fantastic or supernatural thing humans have ever imagined is simply a       >>>> cross between two or more already existing things.       >>>>       >>>> So, yes. I writer can use his imagination to create a fictional       >>>> character or plot -- but everything about the character and plot are       >>>> going to be drawn from things that the writer has already experienced       >>>> (or read about).       >>>>       >>>> As a horror writer, some of my characters do some pretty terrible       >>>> things. These are things that I have never done, and have no plans of       >>>> ever doing. Some are fantasies of things that *a part of me* would like       >>>> to do; others are things that I find absolutely appalling. Both are       >>>> glimpses into my psyche (I fantasize about A, I deplore B).       >>>>       >>>>>> And again, I can only repeat that the more a poem utilizes creative       >>>>>> imagination in its retelling of past events from your life, the more       >>>>>> valuable it becomes as a tool for understanding your psyche.       >>>>>       >>>>> That sounds similar to your claim that, the more a real or pretend       >>>>> patient does not agree with a real or pretend "analyst's" opinions, that       >>>>> only proves the analyst's opinions are correct, because it's evidence       >>>>> that the patient is repressing "the truth" and is in "denial." There's       >>>>> no arguing with someone who thinks it's true by definition that their       >>>>> every opinion is "the unvarnished truth", and no point in trying.       >>>>       >>>> I have never said such a thing, George. A patient can certainly be in       >>>> denial, but that doesn't mean that *every* point of disagreement with       >>>> his psychologist is an example of denial. You are trying to make       >>>> another black and white absolute out of the extremely complex science of       >>>> psychology.       >>>>       >>>>       >>>>> |
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