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|    W.Dockery to HarryLime    |
|    Re: My Father's House / gjd (for new com    |
|    24 Feb 25 22:11:08    |
      [continued from previous message]              >>>>>       >>>>> I hope that isn't too complicated for you to grasp (as you seem unable       >>>>> to grasp any concept that doesn't limit itself to black and white,       >>>>> either/or terms).       >>>>>       >>>>> "Semi-autobiographic" means partially based on the author's life.       >>>>> A fictional book is not based on the author's life, but could contain       >>>>> semi-autobiographic elements.       >>>>>       >>>>>       >>>>>>> "David Copperfield" is a highly fictionalized account of Charles       >>>>>>> Dickens' childhood and young manhood. And his biographers, rightly,       >>>>>>> refer to it when describing parallel incidents from his life. It is       >>>>>>> *because* "David Copperfield" is a fictionalized account of Dickens'       >>>>>>> early life as seen through *his* eyes, to present *his* perception of       >>>>>>> himself that it is so valuable a tool for discovering who Dickens       really       >>>>>>> was.       >>>>>>       >>>>>> First off, biographers of Dickens do not simply conclude that the events       >>>>>> of David Copperfield happened to Dickens simply by doing a       >>>>>> "psychoanalysis" of the book - they actually do some work, and research       >>>>>> the details of Dickens's own life to find parallels with the events of       >>>>>> the novel.       >>>>>       >>>>> That's right, George. I never implied it was otherwise.       >>>>>       >>>>>       >>>>>> Second, I'm not aware of any real or pretend Dickens scholar,       >>>>>> besides you, has ever suggested that every character in David       >>>>>> Copperfield (from clara to Murdstone to the keeper) is really an       >>>>>> "aspect" of Charles Dickens.       >>>>>       >>>>> Then I suggest that you read a little more. Clara and Murdstone were       >>>>> based upon people from Dickens' life (Clara was based on his       >>>>> housekeeper, and Dickens' stepfather was named George Murdstone). His       >>>>> depictions of them represent his feelings toward the individuals they       >>>>> are based on.       >>>>>       >>>>>       >>>>>>> IOW: The more you've chosen to fictionalize, color, or otherwise alter       >>>>>>> the event of your childhood, the more valuable your poem becomes as a       >>>>>>> tool for psychoanalysis.       >>>>>>       >>>>>>       >>>>>>       >>>>>>       >>>>>>       >>>>>>       >>>>>>>>> This is why your perception of Dr. NancyGene's and my analyses of       your       >>>>>>>>> poem strike you as personal attacks, whereas from my perspective the       >>>>>>>>> *only* way to examine a semi-autobiographical poem on child abuse is       >>>>>>>>> consider the speaker and the poet as being essentially the same       >>>>>>>>> individual.       >>>>>>>>       >>>>>>>> Well, no, HarryLiar, I "interpret" your comments on the poem, and       "Dr."       >>>>>>>> NastyGoon's as personal attacks because you use them for personal       >>>>>>>> attacks.       >>>>>>>       >>>>>>> And you wonder why we have diagnosed you as suffering from a       persecution       >>>>>>> complex!       >>>>>>>       >>>>>>>> A good example is your opening paragraph that I quoted, where       >>>>>>>> you use your account of the poem, plus your misinterpretation of       >>>>>>>> something else I'd said, to call me a "pathological liar".       >>>>>>>       >>>>>>> No, George. I call you a pathological liar because you have shown       >>>>>>> yourself to be one time and time again. "Pathological liar" is a       >>>>>>> personality characteristic that one accepts as a "given" when opening       >>>>>>> any psychoanalytical discussion on you.       >>>>>>>       >>>>>>>       >>>>>>>> The more you       >>>>>>>> try to pretend comments like that that are not personal attacks, but       >>>>>>>> just comments on a poem, the harder it is to believe anything you say.       >>>>>>>       >>>>>>> I can't make you believe it, George. Most patients experience an       >>>>>>> initial sense of distrust regarding their analyst; coupled with a sense       >>>>>>> of resistance and denial. Unfortunately, it is extremely difficult to       >>>>>>> gain a patient's trust in an online forum -- especially when the       patient       >>>>>>> is suffering from a persecution complex with accompanying feelings of       >>>>>>> paranoia.       >>>>>>>       >>>>>>>>> In fact, Karla's oft-quoted adage aside, one can *never* fully       separate       >>>>>>>>> the two.       >>>>>>>>> For instance, all of the characters in any author's fictional novel       are       >>>>>>>>> going to represent some aspect of the author. Every poem stems from       its       >>>>>>>>> author's imagination... regardless of what external persons and/or       >>>>>>>>> events might have inspired it.       >>>>>>>>       >>>>>>>> That sounds like another contradiction to me. Previously you said that       >>>>>>>> "every" character in a novel represents an aspect of the author, and       now       >>>>>>>> you admit that at least some are actually inspired by other people.       >>>>>>>       >>>>>>> I've admitted no such thing. I clearly restated my opinion that "all       of       >>>>>>> the characters in any author's fictional novel are going to represent       >>>>>>> some aspect of the author."       >>>>>>       >>>>>> And you also clearly restated that authors can create imaginary,       >>>>>> characters using observation and imagination. Make up your mind: is an       >>>>>> author restricted to writing about himself, or can he write about people       >>>>>> and events that have nothing to do with him?       >>>>>       >>>>> It isn't an either-or situation, George. Reality is more complicated       >>>>> than that.       >>>>>       >>>>> Perhaps this will help you to understand: It has been pointed out that       >>>>> no purely fantastical creatures, places, or things have ever been       >>>>> depicted in fiction (or in dreams, etc.). It has further been posited       >>>>> that purely fantastic beings are *beyond the capability* of the human       >>>>> mind.       >>>>>       >>>>> For instance, a unicorn is a cross between a horse (or a goat) and an       >>>>> antelope. A hobbit is pretty much a short human with hairy feet.       >>>>> Chitty-chitty-bang-bang is an anthropomorphic car that can fly. Every       >>>>> fantastic or supernatural thing humans have ever imagined is simply a       >>>>> cross between two or more already existing things.       >>>>>       >>>>> So, yes. I writer can use his imagination to create a fictional       >>>>> character or plot -- but everything about the character and plot are       >>>>> going to be drawn from things that the writer has already experienced       >>>>> (or read about).       >>>>>       >>>>> As a horror writer, some of my characters do some pretty terrible       >>>>> things. These are things that I have never done, and have no plans of       >>>>> ever doing. Some are fantasies of things that *a part of me* would like       >>>>> to do; others are things that I find absolutely appalling. Both are       >>>>> glimpses into my psyche (I fantasize about A, I deplore B).       >>>>>       >>>>>>> And again, I can only repeat that the more a poem utilizes creative       >>>>>>> imagination in its retelling of past events from your life, the more       >>>>>>> valuable it becomes as a tool for understanding your psyche.       >>>>>>       >>>>>> That sounds similar to your claim that, the more a real or pretend       >>>>>> patient does not agree with a real or pretend "analyst's" opinions, that       >>>>>> only proves the analyst's opinions are correct, because it's evidence       >>>>>> that the patient is repressing "the truth" and is in "denial." There's       >>>>>> no arguing with someone who thinks it's true by definition that their       >>>>>> every opinion is "the unvarnished truth", and no point in trying.       >>>>>       >>>>> I have never said such a thing, George. A patient can certainly be in       >>>>> denial, but that doesn't mean that *every* point of disagreement with       >>>>> his psychologist is an example of denial. You are trying to make       >>>>> another black and white absolute out of the extremely complex science of       >>>>> psychology.       >>>>>       >>>>>              [continued in next message]              --- SoupGate-DOS v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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