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   The True Melissa to All   
   Re: [YASID] Heinlein story where he disc   
   15 Feb 26 13:30:15   
   
   From: thetruemelissa@gmail.com   
      
   Verily, in article , did   
   lcraver@home.ca deliver unto us this message:   
   >   
   > On Thu, 12 Feb 2026 08:19:16 -0500, The True Melissa   
   >  wrote:   
   >   
   > >We are programmed to bond with people like ourselves --members of the   
   > >same tribe, with the same assumptions and customs and habits -- but also   
   > >programmed to avoid members of the same immediate sib, to increase   
   > >genetic mixing.   
   > >   
   > >Most of us don't ever meet long-lost relatives, but many of us marry   
   > >people who resemble our parents.   
   > >   
   > I have pictures of my parents and grandparents (and my wife's) in the   
   > hallway between kitchen and living room so see them all the time and   
   > my daughter does resemble my mother; similarly I have a picture of my   
   > great-grandfather (happens to be in WW1 naval uniform) who the details   
   > of his face look nothing like mine but the overall shape of face is   
   > very close.   
   >   
   > I wouldn't say my wife looked at all like my parents (but then her   
   > family and mine grew up 1500 miles apart which is a big deal when   
   > we're discussing Europe)   
   >   
   > And of course my son looks nothing at all like his wife (hardly   
   > surprising since her biological father was Vietnamese)   
   >   
   > So perhaps you're right at the 10000' level but up close?   
      
   After I'd been married a few years, my MIL showed me some family photos.   
   I noticed quietly that one guy looked a lot like my own father -- odd.   
   My MIL then said that she'd always thought my husband looked a lot like   
   that person.   
      
   I'd never noticed my husband resembling my father, but he likely did in   
   some respects.   
      
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