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      From: rpattree2@gmail.com              THETALKINGLLAMA       An ongoing exploration of faith, culture, myth, life, art. An advocate for all       who are trapped in nightmares.       SKIP TO CONTENT       ABOUT ME       SPIRITUAL ABUSE SURVIVOR'S NETWORK       ROLLING STONE       FLOWERS OF EVIL       28       FEB       2014       10 Great Books on Spiritual Abuse & Mind Control       posted in Abuse, Art & Entertainment, Books, Charismatics, Christianity,       Church Issues, Cults, End Times, Evil, Faith, Fundamentalism, Healing,       Injustice, Lists, Literature, Manipulation, Mind Control, No Longer Quivering,       Reading, Religion, Spiritual        Abuse, Uncategorized by Boze Herrington       5129ufB6BEL._AA278_PIkin4,BottomRight,-49,22_AA300_SH20_OU01_The summer after       I left the dangerous group, I read a ton of books on the dynamics of spiritual       manipulation within Christian cults. Books are a great way of finding one's       way back to reality.        Through them I was able to get a better sense of the nightmare in which I had       been living for the last three to four years of my life. And when tragedy       struck at the end of that year, I wasn't wholly unprepared to deal with it.              Tonight I wanted to share some of my favorite resources on spiritually abusive       groups. Some of these are fictional and some are not. Stories are invaluable       to a right understanding of cults because it's so hard to grasp conceptually       how these groups        function unless you can see it laid out.              1. The Children's Story (James Clavell)              My first exposure to the subtle power of mind control was a chilling       twenty-minute movie that I had to watch for a Gifted & Talented class in the       fifth grade. The entire book can be read in under half an hour and takes place       within a single classroom        where a group of grade school students discover that America has been taken       over and their teacher is being sent away to be re-educated. By the end of the       story, each of them has also been re-educated, although it happens so subtly       that none of them        recognizes it.                             2. The Wave (Todd Strasser)              This is the notorious true story of a history lesson that got way out of hand.       In 1967 in Palo Alto, California, high school history teacher Ron Jones was       struggling to explain to his students why so many ordinary Germans followed       the Nazis. He finally        hit upon the idea of starting his own movement, called "The Third Wave."       Within three days it had taken over the school.              The story has been made into two movies, one American and one German. The       American version is on Youtube.                            days-of-fire-and-gloryjpg-c1c8777bb2fb5f423. Days of Fire & Glory: The       Rise and Fall of a Charismatic Community (Julia Duin)               I ran across this book in a university library the month I was asked to leave       the group. Julia Duin was the Religion editor of the Washington Times and for       a while a member of a charismatic church in Houston, Texas with a dark and       shadowy past. As she        started interviewing old and former members, she uncovered a story of a       zealous group of young people swept away in the fervor of a Holy Spirit       revival. But the authoritarian rule of one man threatened to undo all that       they fought for, creating an        abusive discipleship system that shattered marriages and ruined the faith of       dozens.              4. People of the Lie (M. Scott Peck)               A classic work of popular psychology, this is an indispensable examination of       what Peck calls the phenomenon of evil people, those who are chronically       narcissistic, predatory, and abusive. What makes them "people of the lie" is       that to all outward        appearances these are genuine, kind-hearted men and women who are the pillars       of their civic and religious communities. Yet their inability to empathize       with others makes them the perpetrators of unthinkable cruelties. They will       never admit to being        wrong, and they use their reputation as a shield to evade being exposed for       what they truly are.                            9781453695166_p0_v1_s260x4205. The Seduction of Eva Volk (C. D. Baker)              Recommended by psychologist Diane Langberg in a lecture on narcissists and the       systems they breed, this novel uses the structure of a fictional love triangle       between a poet, a young woman, and a Nazi officer in the days leading up to       the Second World War        to examine the untold story of how Hitler used religion to seduce Christian       Germany.              6. New Science of Politics (Erik Voegelin)              Easily the most academic book on this list, this is nevertheless an invaluable       look at the dangers of the heresy of millenarianism throughout history. Put       simply, millenarianism is the radical idea that an elite group of people is       going to take over the        leadership of the earth after a period of global catastrophe. (It's the       devastation wrought by this idea that Marius was lamenting in his song at the       end of Les Mis). The Puritans, Nazis, and Soviet communists were all       millenarians. Voegelin exposes why        this ideology is so persistent, and so dangerous.              7. Destroying the World to Save It (Robert J. Lifton)              Along the same lines, this book by renowned psychiatrist Robert Lifton       (inventor of the famous eight warning signs of mind control) examines the       dangers of millenarianism in the twenty-first century through the prism of Aum       Shinrikyo, a Japanese cult        that released sarin gas in the subways of Tokyo. According to Lifton, groups       that begin by believing that a violent event must precede a new world will       eventually be inspired to create that new world through violence.              8. Under the Banner of Heaven: A Story of Violent Faith (Jon Krakauer)              Investigative journalist Jon Krakauer (author of Into the Wild) explores a       similar idea in this sobering true story of two fundamentalist Mormons who       murdered their sister-in-law and her children because God told them to do it.       Krakauer argues that in a        religion based on divine revelation from heaven, anything is permissible       because no one can argue that God isn't speaking to you directly. And lest you       think this only applies to Mormons, keep in mind that the book was recommended       to me by someone on        Twitter who noted the eerie parallels to my own prayer group.               9780310874089_p0_v1_s260x4209. Twisted Scriptures (Mary Alice Chrnalogar)              Published by Zondervan, this window into the dynamics of abusive religious       environments written by a former cult member brings clarity to the question of       whether or not one is suffering from spiritual abuse. At the end of the book       she offers a six-page        checklist. Dangerous leaders shield themselves from accountability while using       mind control, guilt, fear, and the language of Christianity to imprison their       followers.                     [continued in next message]              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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