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|    What Is Gaslighting? (1/3)    |
|    29 Jul 14 23:58:59    |
      From: olivercranglejr@gmail.com              Book Review:       Gaslighting -       How to Drive Your Enemies Crazy       by Victor Santoro,       reviewer Eleanor White       This page updated February 6, 2004              Copyright 1994       Published by       Loompanics Unlimited       PO Box 1197       Port Townsend, WA 98368 USA       ISBN 1-55950-113-8       Library of Congress number 94-75742       113 pages, paperback, indexed       This is an "Eleanor White Book Review". Such reviews are not like       what       you see in the print media. My emphasis is to provide enough       information that a multi-stalking victim or supporter can make an       intelligent decision as to whether to buy the book. This means most       of       the reviews are excerpted text, with comments inserted. This type of       review is biased in favor of information relevant to the fight to       expose, educate the public about, and stop, multiple stalking.              Note: In the excerpted text from the book, emphasis by way of ALL       UPPER CASE LETTERS is mine. The reason for such emphasis is to point       up information particularly relevant.              The MAIN purpose of this book review is to describe for the visiting       public just how subtle and devious the "science" of harassment had       become by the end of the 20th century. Multiple stalker victims will       immediately recognize the modus operandi in this book.              The book Gaslighting is intended to show effective ways of driving       someone who has done the reader a REALLY bad turn, or made life Hell       for the reader, REALLY crazy. The author takes the position that a       few       people really do deserve extraordinary harassment. The problem with       multiple stalking victims, however, is that they have done NOTHING to       deserve the types of treatment described in this book.              REASON TO PURCHASE THIS BOOK: I, Eleanor White, have found that this       little book in hard copy form can do a terrific job of making it       plain       to those not informed about multiple stalking that some people really       do at the very least THINK, and SERIOUSLY, about such crimes.       Especially good for doubting family members and co-workers, who often       would really rather none of what the multi stalking victim says be       true, and would love to rid themselves of worry by writing us off as       mental cases.                     Table of Contents              Introduction .................................................. 1              Gaslighting Philosophy ........................................ 5              Causing Disorientation ........................................ 19              Building Paranoia ............................................. 39              Destroying Your Target's Reputation ........................... 45              Provoking Confrontations ...................................... 59              Real Trouble .................................................. 101              A Final Word .................................................. 113              Back to Top of Table of Contents       Introduction              [p 1]              "Gaslighting" is a systematic array of techniques that destroys your       target's mental equilibrium, self-confidence, and self-esteem, and is       designed to drive your target nuts. Gaslighting is NOT conventional       harassment or physical destruction, but highly refined and subtle       psychological warfare.              [Eleanor White: Sound familiar?]              Relatively crude harassing tactics, such as sending him magazine       subscriptions and having his utilities turned off make it       unequivocally clear to the target that HE'S UNDER ATTACK BY SOMEONE       ELSE.              [Eleanor White: And I might add, this book proposes tactics designed       so that the target canNOT convince others that he IS under attack.       The       big difference is FREQUENCY of occurrence. While the normal breaks of       life happen occasionally, "Gaslighting" and multi stalking victims       may       have these subtle attacks happen DAILY.]              Gaslighting is far more subtle, because most of the techniques NEVER       CLEARLY POINT to a malevolent or vengeful other party. The hapless       target never suspects that things are being done to him ... [EW: at       first, anyway] ...he comes to believe he's DOING THEM TO HIMSELF!              Other tactics are designed to ALIENATE HIM FROM HIS FAMILY MEMBERS,       NEIGHBORS, ASSOCIATES, FELLOW EMPLOYEES, AND EVEN HIS EMPLOYER!              [p 2]              The term "Gaslighting" comes from the 1944 Hollywood movie       Gaslight... ... In the movie Charles Boyer tries to convince his wife       that she's going insane by contriving incidents designed to make it       appear as if she's forgetful, disoriented, an confused. ... Boyer ...       was able to use the force of his personality to convince Bergman that       she had inherited bad genes from her mother, who had died insane.              Back to Top of Table of Contents              Chapter 1: Gaslighting Philosophy              [p 8]              A fundamental aspect of gaslighting doctrine is that it's a       progressive attack on your target's personality first, followed by       his       social and occupational relationships. Unlike harassment, where you       work from the outside in, gaslighting begins at the center and works       out. The sequence of attacks is important, because if you were to       mount a direct attack at first, you'd run into a strong and fully       functioning personality, able to resist the assaults.              [Eleanor White: Thankfully, in many cases of attacks as described in       this book, these sly moves actually STIFFEN and STRENGTHEN the       target's resolve, not destroy it.]              [p 9]              There are several steps in preparing a gaslighting campaign against a       target. The first is to find out all you can about your target. The       first step is to find out all you can about your target, to uncover       entry points into his life. The following list provides a minimal       outline of what you need to know:              - Full name       - Home address       - Marital status       - Spouse's name       - Number of children if any       - Children's sex and age       - Other relatives       - Occupation       - Work address       - Work telephone       - Name of supervisor       - Names of fellow employees       - Spouse's workplace       - Hobbies and interests       - Motor vehicles owned       - License plate numbers       - Credit card accounts       - Bank account numbers              [Eleanor White: My multiple stalkers have demonstrated knowledge of       all the applicable points listed above, and it is a real puzzle how       this has been done.]              [p 12]              Your target should not discover that he's under attack until your       plan       is well underway and it's too late for him to counter it.              [p 13]              In many cases, you'll improve your chances of success if you have a       confederate or two to support you. This is especially true if you're       conducting a whispering campaign against your target. A target may       accuse one person of "having it in for him," but if he begins voicing       suspicions of SEVERAL people conspiring against him, he'll present an       image of paranoia.              [p 14]              Official stationery from government agencies and letterheads from              [continued in next message]              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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