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      From: 23x11.5c@gmail.com              4 Steps to Get Rid of Hoarding Habits and Save Money       by ASHLEY ENERIZ                            When my in-laws moved to a different state, the real challenge came when we       cleaned out their garage and started minimizing stuff for the move. "Where do       you want me to start," I asked my mother-in-law while looking at her very       packed garage.              She thought for a while and spent a good ten minutes telling what not to       touch. I couldn't touch those vintage items because she was going to get       appraised. I couldn't touch those boxes because my father-in-law needed to do       through them. Opening up a        cedar chest sent her into a huge sidetrack of memories as she looked at her       grandmother's wedding items. She could surely never part with those.              It's been a few months since that day, and even though my in-laws made the       move, the garage still looks the same. They were able to keep their items       stored in the garage while renting out the rooms in the home.              Does this scene sound familiar to you? If you've ever tried to help someone       with a lot of stuff (aka a hoarder), then you know how hard it is to actually       get anything done. Everything they own has potential value or sentiment, yet       no progress is ever        truly made on what items get sold or donated.              If you're guilty of this, or know someone who is, here are some easy steps to       take to overcome your hoarding habits.                     The Frugal Side of Being Clutter-Free              I consider myself the opposite of a hoarder. I enjoy having an easy-to-clean       home where each space is maximized for living, not storage. I know many people       struggle with the battle of clutter, and I'm here to give you some       encouragement today. The more        clutter and "stuff" you get rid of, the more freedom and money you will have.              Here are a few examples on how shedding your hoarding ways can save you money:              You don't have to pay for extra storage space       A clutter-free garage means you can actually park your cars and extend their       value (I live in a desert, and the heat and sand damage is tough on my car)       It's easier to find stuff, which saves time and money, because you won't have       to replace items you already have due to misplacing them       Your house will sell faster when you show your home without clutter       Too much clutter can lead to a lot of dust, which can mean having to pay for       more allergy medicine       A decreased chance of falling or injury       Four Steps to Ditch Your Hoarding (and Costly) Habits              So how do you keep your hoarding habits at bay, especially with the holidays       fast approaching?              Keep Life Simple: Stuff can accumulate over the years, and before you know it,       you have multiple dish sets, a closet full of towels, and at least a hundred       pieces of clothing and accessories. When I first started cutting down my       wardrobe, it was hard to        get rid of things. But the truth is that I only wore about 25% of my wardrobe,       and my closet was always a mess because there were too many things to keep       organized. Getting rid of items is hard, but when I cut my wardrobe down 60%,       life was so much        simpler. Now, I spend less time doing laundry, deciding what to wear, and       keeping my closet and room clean. Once I purged my husband's closet too, we       decided to have a yard sale. We brought in a couple hundred dollars, but the       best part is that cleaning        is a lot easier now.       Don't Give Into Guilt: Many people hang on to items because they don't want       offend the person who gifted it to them. Or perhaps it's hard to sell       something at a yard sale when you paid good money for it a few years before.       If you let this guilt hold you        back from getting rid of an item, it will hold you back from getting rid of a       closet full of unused and unwanted items. I'm not talking about hurting       people's feelings intentionally, but if something's not getting used, then it       doesn't belong there.       Redirect Bad Gift Givers: This is a hard subject to talk about because you       don't want to offend family members and friends, but you also don't want to be       stuck with a lot of unnecessary stuff. Personally, I think it's a bigger       insult to stick a gift in a        garage unused than to return it for something you will use it. When family       members and friends ask what to get my family for Christmas, I stick with the       essentials I know will get used. I also direct individuals to give the gift of       their time versus a        material gift. For example, I suggest they spend quality time with my daughter       and get ice cream together instead of buying her a toy.       Don't Procrastinate on Junk: I'm good about getting unwanted stuff out of the       house and into the garage with the purpose of selling it. However, if I don't       put a deadline on following through with that intention, and then it just       clutters up the garage        for way too long. Set a note in your calendar to list an item for sale or have       a garage sale by a certain date. Otherwise arrange for a donation truck to       pick up your items. I would much rather make a little bit of money off of my       unwanted stuff, but if        the items are taking up space in the garage, they're better off being donated       and not taking up room in my to-do list and thoughts.       Don't wait for spring to declutter your life and get rid of your hoarding       ways. Clearing out your closets and shelves is the perfect thing to do before       the holidays. It's really freeing to decorate a home that's not overflowing       with stuff.              Confession time; do you tend to hoard unnecessary items or do you enjoy a       clutter-free living?              Tagged as: Advice, Frugality, Motivation              Money Saving Tip: An incredibly effective way to save more is to reduce your       monthly Internet and TV costs. Click here for the current Verizon FiOS       promotion codes and promos to see if you can save more money every month from       now on.       Related Posts              4 Easy Steps to Save Money and Declutter with a Pantry Challenge       3 Steps to Changing Your Financial Habits       Money Isn't Just for Hoarding -- It's For Spending, Too       7 Frugal Habits Everyone Should Develop       6 Painless Ways to Save Money for a Vacation                     http://moneyning.com/better-yourself/4-steps-to-get-rid-of-hoard       ng-habits-and-save-money/              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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