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      From: sheriffcoltrane23x@gmail.com              Book Review:        Gaslighting -        How to Drive Your Enemies Crazy               by Victor Santoro,        reviewer Eleanor White        This page updated February 6, 2004               Copyright 1994        Published by        Loompanics Unlimited        PO Box 1197        Port Townsend, WA 98368 USA        ISBN 1-55950-113-8        Library of Congress number 94-75742        113 pages, paperback, indexed        This is an "Eleanor White Book Review". Such reviews are not like what you see       in the print media. My emphasis is to provide enough information that a       multi-stalking victim or supporter can make an intelligent decision as to       whether to buy the book. This        means most of the reviews are excerpted text, with comments inserted. This       type of review is biased in favor of information relevant to the fight to       expose, educate the public about, and stop, multiple stalking.               Note: In the excerpted text from the book, emphasis by way of ALL UPPER CASE       LETTERS is mine. The reason for such emphasis is to point up information       particularly relevant.               The MAIN purpose of this book review is to describe for the visiting public       just how subtle and devious the "science" of harassment had become by the end       of the 20th century. Multiple stalker victims will immediately recognize the       modus operandi in this        book.               The book Gaslighting is intended to show effective ways of driving someone who       has done the reader a REALLY bad turn, or made life Hell for the reader,       REALLY crazy. The author takes the position that a few people really do       deserve extraordinary        harassment. The problem with multiple stalking victims, however, is that they       have done NOTHING to deserve the types of treatment described in this book.               REASON TO PURCHASE THIS BOOK: I, Eleanor White, have found that this little       book in hard copy form can do a terrific job of making it plain to those not       informed about multiple stalking that some people really do at the very least       THINK, and SERIOUSLY,        about such crimes. Especially good for doubting family members and co-workers,       who often would really rather none of what the multi stalking victim says be       true, and would love to rid themselves of worry by writing us off as mental       cases.                      Table of Contents                             Introduction .................................................. 1               Gaslighting Philosophy ........................................ 5               Causing Disorientation ........................................ 19               Building Paranoia ............................................. 39               Destroying Your Target's Reputation ........................... 45               Provoking Confrontations ...................................... 59               Real Trouble .................................................. 101               A Final Word .................................................. 113               Back to Top of Table of Contents        Introduction               [p 1]               "Gaslighting" is a systematic array of techniques that destroys your target's       mental equilibrium, self-confidence, and self-esteem, and is designed to drive       your target nuts. Gaslighting is NOT conventional harassment or physical       destruction, but highly        refined and subtle psychological warfare.               [Eleanor White: Sound familiar?]               Relatively crude harassing tactics, such as sending him magazine subscriptions       and having his utilities turned off make it unequivocally clear to the target       that HE'S UNDER ATTACK BY SOMEONE ELSE.               [Eleanor White: And I might add, this book proposes tactics designed so that       the target canNOT convince others that he IS under attack. The big difference       is FREQUENCY of occurrence. While the normal breaks of life happen       occasionally, "Gaslighting" and        multi stalking victims may have these subtle attacks happen DAILY.]               Gaslighting is far more subtle, because most of the techniques NEVER CLEARLY       POINT to a malevolent or vengeful other party. The hapless target never       suspects that things are being done to him ... [EW: at first, anyway] ...he       comes to believe he's DOING        THEM TO HIMSELF!               Other tactics are designed to ALIENATE HIM FROM HIS FAMILY MEMBERS, NEIGHBORS,       ASSOCIATES, FELLOW EMPLOYEES, AND EVEN HIS EMPLOYER!               [p 2]               The term "Gaslighting" comes from the 1944 Hollywood movie Gaslight... ... In       the movie Charles Boyer tries to convince his wife that she's going insane by       contriving incidents designed to make it appear as if she's forgetful,       disoriented, an confused. ..       . Boyer ... was able to use the force of his personality to convince Bergman       that she had inherited bad genes from her mother, who had died insane.               Back to Top of Table of Contents               Chapter 1: Gaslighting Philosophy               [p 8]               A fundamental aspect of gaslighting doctrine is that it's a progressive attack       on your target's personality first, followed by his social and occupational       relationships. Unlike harassment, where you work from the outside in,       gaslighting begins at the        center and works out. The sequence of attacks is important, because if you       were to mount a direct attack at first, you'd run into a strong and fully       functioning personality, able to resist the assaults.               [Eleanor White: Thankfully, in many cases of attacks as described in this       book, these sly moves actually STIFFEN and STRENGTHEN the target's resolve,       not destroy it.]               [p 9]               There are several steps in preparing a gaslighting campaign against a target.       The first is to find out all you can about your target. The first step is to       find out all you can about your target, to uncover entry points into his life.       The following list        provides a minimal outline of what you need to know:               - Full name        - Home address        - Marital status        - Spouse's name        - Number of children if any        - Children's sex and age        - Other relatives        - Occupation        - Work address        - Work telephone        - Name of supervisor        - Names of fellow employees        - Spouse's workplace        - Hobbies and interests        - Motor vehicles owned        - License plate numbers        - Credit card accounts        - Bank account numbers               [Eleanor White: My multiple stalkers have demonstrated knowledge of all the       applicable points listed above, and it is a real puzzle how this has been       done.]               [p 12]               Your target should not discover that he's under attack until your plan is well       underway and it's too late for him to counter it.               [p 13]                      [continued in next message]              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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