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      From: judgebean23x@gmail.com              What Can I Do if I Suspect That Someone Given Power of Attorney Is Acting       Fraudulently?              26 answers | Last updated: Mar 03, 2016                     A fellow caregiver asked...       What can I do if I suspect that someone given power of attorney is acting       fraudulently?              Expert Answers              Barbara Repa, a Caring.com senior editor, is an attorney, a journalist       specializing in aging issues, and the author of Your Rights in the Workplace       (Nolo), now in its 10th edition.       A person named as an agent in a power of attorney has the legal duty to act in       "the best interests" of the principal -- that is, the person who made the       document. While that's a little fuzzy as a legal standard, the greater       practical truth is that you        know fraud when you see it: for example, money being siphoned from a bank       account instead of being used to provide for the principal's health and safety.              An outsider trying to detect such fraud, however, is pinned in a difficult       spot, since it may be tough to find out exactly what the agent is doing. In       most states, the agent will not automatically be required to account or report       to a court or to family        members or other concerned individuals.              Your first step will be to get specific about your concerns about exactly what       makes you suspect fraud is occurring. Then try to have an honest talk with the       agent. Don't be accusatory; simply emphasize that you're interested in knowing       what's going on.        Also let him or her know you're available to help or that you support the idea       of hiring someone else to lend some assistance -- perhaps a bookkeeper to do       some basic accounting -- if that will relieve the burden of acting as agent.       In a surprising        number of cases, that show of care and concern clears up the matter.              If that step isn't possible or successful, you might ask a court to review the       agent's acts to make sure they're on the up-and-up, and possibly to require an       accounting so that the finances can be more directly monitored. To start this       procedure, check        the requirements of the nearest probate court. You should be able to find it       by searching for probate court and the name of the city or county.              Defrauding an older person may be a form of financial abuse, which is strictly       prohibited by the elder abuse laws in effect in every state. If you're fairly       certain that some financial abuse is occurring and have good evidence to prove       it, such as past-       due bills that should have been paid for the principal, or receipts showing       the agent used the principal's money for his or her own gain, consider       consulting the office of adult protective services nearest to where the older       person lives. You can find        contact information by doing an Internet search of adult protective services       along with the name of the state. Most of these agencies operate confidential       hotlines to help callers define and direct their complaints, can provide       referrals to local sources        for more help, and sometimes undertake investigations on their own.              Finally -- again, if you're fairly certain that financial abuse has occurred       and have some solid evidence to prove it -- consider hiring an elder law       attorney for help in filing a claim against the agent. Before making any       decision to hire, make sure the        lawyer is experienced in seeking compensation from people who have abused and       misused powers of attorney by intentionally stealing property or negligently       handling someone else's property.              Community Answers              Blanche katz answered...       Here's a hint! When and if reporting to the local police departments, it is       advised to have contacted the local Adult Protective Services first. APS wil       do an investigation which the local police may not have the time to do right       away. Many times the        local police have more pressing crimes to contend with and not being funded to       provide the proper personnel, the status of the elderly gets put "on the back       burner". With the APS report, they will be able to begin to focus their       limited resources towards        gathering the necessary evidence and the chances for the conviction will be       enhanced.              Blanche Katz, MSN, RN, GNP The ElderCare Educator              A fellow caregiver answered...       Please listen ! A lot of time when you give Power of Attorney to someone,they       will turn into a monster.You think you know them ,but you don't.You will be       made a big mistake. I know of a case where the Mother gave a her own daughter       POA,and the Mother was        just fine living alone and taking care of herself and the daughter put her in       a nursing home,and the other daughter had to really fight a battle to get her       out of the hursing home.The daughter who had the POA even stopped the other       daughter from visting        her Mom in the nursing home.PLEASE LISTEN TO ME,THEIR IS A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO       HAVE HAD THE SAME TROUBLE FROM GIVING THE POA TO SOMEONE.PLEASE KNOW WHAT YOU       ARE DOING WHEN YOU SIGN YOUR POWER OF ATTORNEY OVER TO ANYONE.IT SHOULD BE       NAMED ( POWER OF MY LIFE        ).THE PERSON YOU SIGN THE POA OVER TO RUNS YOUR LIFE ,AND DOES WHATEVER THEY       WANT TOO, THEY DON'T EVEN HAVE TO ASK YOU BEFORE THEY DO WHATEVER THEY WANT       TOO TO YOU ! .I PRAY THIS WILL OPEN YOUR EYES.DON'T EVER SIGN A DURABLE POWER       OF ATTORNEY OVER TO        ANYBODY PLEASE. IF THIS HASN'T CHANGED YOUR MIND IF YOU WAS GOING TO SIGN ONE       OVER ,AT LEAST PLEASE LOOK IT UP ON YOUR COMPUTER ,OR GO TO A NURSING HOME AND       SEE ALL OF THE PEOPLE (MOTHERS AND FATHERS ) THAT CRY DAY AND NIGHT THAT HAVE       SIGNED THEIRS OVER        TO SOMEONE THEY TRUSTED AND LOVED.              A fellow caregiver answered...       I had a similar problem with a sibling who had POA and then I discovered that       she was committing fraud. I collected all the evidence and documentation and       then went to my father's lawyer who helped me get her POA revoked. The Adult       Protective Services        may be able to help as well, but it would take longer, especially if the       parent is not able to participate fully in the process. It is very sad when       this situation occurs. Because of the POA revocation, my sibling has spread       vicious rumors to extended        family that I am keeping her from her father, yadda, yadda, yadda. To anyone       who finds themselves in this situation I have but one word of advice:       documentation. With clear documentation of the fraudulant activity, you can       live with all the naysayers        knowing that you did the right thing to care for your parent. Good luck!              The caregiver's voice answered...       ANOTHER POINT OF VIEW                     [continued in next message]              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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