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|    David Dalton to All    |
|    black widow(er) effect    |
|    30 Jun 22 03:48:28    |
      0e4af668       XPost: alt.healing.reiki, alt.meditation.qigong, sci.med.psychobiology       XPost: sci.psychology.misc, bionet.neuroscience       From: dalton@nfld.com              Incompatible relationships are an abomination, so for a gay man       (man attracted just to men) to have sex with a woman, often by       thinking of a man who is not there, or for a lesbian (woman       attracted just to women) to have sex with a man, sometimes       by thinking of a woman who is not there, is an abomination.              And associated with that is a black widow effect, when a lesbian       is married to a man the man’s lifespan is shortened, and a       black widower effect, when a gay man is married to a woman       the woman’s lifespan is shortened. (That does not apply to       platonic gay--lesbian parental units.)              One example of this that I intuited with my past matchmaking       ability is that UN Secretary General Antonio Guterres is       gay, and that resulted in the early death of his first wife.       However, he is optimally sexually compatible with his       current wife, who is bimT.              While in the long term there can be detrimental effects to the       physical health of the deceived partner, in the short term       there may be detrimental mental health effects.              --       David Dalton dalton@nfld.com https://www.nfld.com/~dalton (home page)       https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/dtales.html Salmon on the Thorns (mystic page)       “‘Then you saw me from the cathedral/Well I'm an ancient heart/Yes,       you saw me from the cathedral/And here we are just falling apart" (T.T.)              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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