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   Message 129,815 of 130,039   
   Charles Ellson to G6JPG@255soft.uk   
   Re: death sequence? (East Ruston, Norfol   
   20 Oct 23 17:10:55   
   
   From: charlesellson@btinternet.com   
      
   On Fri, 20 Oct 2023 16:39:55 +0100, "J. P. Gilliver"   
    wrote:   
      
   > From a stone I photographed there on Tuesday (2023-10-17). [I think this   
   >is a text-only group; if someone says it isn't, I'll post the pic.]   
   >   
   >Very clear apart from the "th". All lines are of course centred.   
   >IN   
   >LOVING MEMORY OF   
   >WILLIAM CURTIS   
   >DIED MAY 27TH 1936   
   >AGED 86 YEARS.   
   >ALSO HIS WIFE   
   >SARAH CURTIS   
   >DIED JAN 13xx 1923 [or 5]   
   >AGED 72 YEARS.   
   >RESTING IN PEACE   
   >   
   >(All in capitals, though of varying sizes.)   
   >   
   >What puzzled me: on stones I've looked at in the past, "Also" usually   
   >means a later addition. But here, her date is nearly 13 years _before_   
   >his. As I say, it's very clear - at least the 1936 and the 192. Any idea   
   >what's going on?   
   >   
   >Could be a stonemason's error - I know my grandfather's date was wrong   
   >for many years, and of course advantage was taken of my grandmother's   
   >distressed state (so we feel, anyway) to not correct it - but where such   
   >a glaring error as above has been made, if it _was_ an error, I wouldn't   
   >have thought that was the explanation.   
   >   
   >Checking with GRO - he's shown (Smallburgh, which includes East Ruston)   
   >as 1936Q2 (84), and she (ditto) as 1923Q1 (72). So the dates seem   
   >correct - just seems very odd the stone records them as it does!   
   >   
   Various possibilities :-   
   -A replacement for a damaged or under-sized headstone; maybe also a   
   delayed installation and that was the inscription the family/whoever   
   specified.   
      
   -A headstone erected and names inscribed while the lairholders were   
   still alive which carries the risk of people not dying in the matching   
   order.   
      
   -Cremated remains which were buried along with the surviving spouse.   
      
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