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|    Ilya Shambat to All    |
|    Are women stupid or are they smart?    |
|    01 May 23 20:08:01    |
      From: ibshambat@gmail.com              There are many men who think that women are stupid. Yet in the same breath as       they accuse them of stupidity, they accuse them of having a kind of devilish       intelligence – a craftiness that manipulates and preys on men.              So are women stupid or are they smart? You have to make up your mind here. If       women are stupid, then they can’t be crafty; and if they can be crafty then       they aren’t stupid.              So we see men deciding that their partner is stupid and using that to heap       abuse on her. When the woman starts using her brain and fighting the abuse,       suddenly she is Satan. Suddenly she is cold, manipulative or sociopathic.       Whether the woman uses her        brain or whether she does not use her brain, she gets seen in a negative       light. With some people you just can’t win.              I’ve constantly been hearing such statements as that women do nothing but       screw men over. There are any number of women who want nothing to do with men       at all; but I doubt that such men would prefer their company. The men who       believe that women are bad        are a bunch of brats. They haven’t had to deal with truly bad women, such as       any number involved in American feminism. Instead they have at their disposal       women who are beautiful, kind and willing to be good to their men; and all       they can think to do        is use them as punching bags.              Many times people don’t realize how good they have it. Men in many places in       the world have it very good. They don’t have to deal with women who are bad       for real. They fail to appreciate what they have. And if you don’t       appreciate what you have,        you deserve to lose it.              Back to the original point, it appears that there are any number of forms of       intelligence. Some are more natural to women and some are more natural to men.       I make the case that there is merit in all these forms of intelligence.       Similarly it takes        different forms of intelligence to be an engineer or a salesman; but in both       cases we see intelligence.              If women really have such a devilish, crafty intelligence, then that is       something that men need to learn how to work with and use in their favor. Once       again, what we see here is a form of intelligence. And any form of       intelligence can be used for right        as easily as it can be used for wrong.               It makes no sense to either deify or demonize any form of intelligence. Any       form of intelligence can be used for both right and wrong. The forms of       intelligence that are more natural to women should be understood and then       properly utilized. And then what        is seen as an evil becomes a tool of good, and the world and men in it benefit       from its expression.              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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