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   Message 97,404 of 98,335   
   Ilya Shambat to All   
   Are women stupid or are they smart?   
   01 May 23 20:08:01   
   
   From: ibshambat@gmail.com   
      
   There are many men who think that women are stupid. Yet in the same breath as   
   they accuse them of stupidity, they accuse them of having a kind of devilish   
   intelligence – a craftiness that manipulates and preys on men.   
      
   So are women stupid or are they smart? You have to make up your mind here. If   
   women are stupid, then they can’t be crafty; and if they can be crafty then   
   they aren’t stupid.   
      
   So we see men deciding that their partner is stupid and using that to heap   
   abuse on her. When the woman starts using her brain and fighting the abuse,   
   suddenly she is Satan. Suddenly she is cold, manipulative or sociopathic.   
   Whether the woman uses her    
   brain or whether she does not use her brain, she gets seen in a negative   
   light. With some people you just can’t win.   
      
   I’ve constantly been hearing such statements as that women do nothing but   
   screw men over. There are any number of women who want nothing to do with men   
   at all; but I doubt that such men would prefer their company. The men who   
   believe that women are bad    
   are a bunch of brats. They haven’t had to deal with truly bad women, such as   
   any number involved in American feminism. Instead they have at their disposal   
   women who are beautiful, kind and willing to be good to their men; and all   
   they can think to do    
   is use them as punching bags.   
      
   Many times people don’t realize how good they have it. Men in many places in   
   the world have it very good. They don’t have to deal with women who are bad   
   for real. They fail to appreciate what they have. And if you don’t   
   appreciate what you have,    
   you deserve to lose it.   
      
   Back to the original point, it appears that there are any number of forms of   
   intelligence. Some are more natural to women and some are more natural to men.   
   I make the case that there is merit in all these forms of intelligence.   
   Similarly it takes    
   different forms of intelligence to be an engineer or a salesman; but in both   
   cases we see intelligence.   
      
   If women really have such a devilish, crafty intelligence, then that is   
   something that men need to learn how to work with and use in their favor. Once   
   again, what we see here is a form of intelligence. And any form of   
   intelligence can be used for right    
   as easily as it can be used for wrong.    
      
   It makes no sense to either deify or demonize any form of intelligence. Any   
   form of intelligence can be used for both right and wrong. The forms of   
   intelligence that are more natural to women should be understood and then   
   properly utilized. And then what    
   is seen as an evil becomes a tool of good, and the world and men in it benefit   
   from its expression.   
      
   --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05   
    * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)   

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