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   Melissa Nicol to NUR   
   Re: Baha'i sexual abuser Hossein Danesh    
   20 Sep 20 12:56:19   
   
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   From: melissanicol916@gmail.com   
      
   On Wednesday, June 2, 2010 at 3:40:28 PM UTC-7, NUR wrote:   
   > On Jun 3, 2:13 am, diamondsouled  wrote:   
   > > This lax attitude towards sexual abusers in the Baha'i Faith and the   
   > > converse hard line taken against several Baha'i scholars/intellectuals   
   > > for simply voicing their personal consciences/interpretations starkly   
   > > outlines what presently ails the Baha'i Faith. That they see more of a   
   > > threat to their religion from those who freely express their personal   
   > > consciences then they do from perverts like Danesh is very telling   
   > > IMHO.   
   > >   
   > > Cheers   
   > >   
   > > Larry Rowe   
   > Larry, I was around when this case broke out. My opinion of this guy   
   > was the same as yours. But the more I think about it, the more it   
   > dawns on me that on the sex abuse front, I don't think you can really   
   > call Danesh an abuser in the same way you can call a child molester or   
   > rapist a sexual abuser. The legal system in Canada is extremely PC-   
   > obssessed and there have been cases of people whose careers have been   
   > destroyed over trifles. Danesh is an asshole for other more important   
   > reasons, but the more the facts of his case are interrogated, the more   
   > it dawns on me that there was consensual sex involved in the romp   
   > fests Danesh was having with his patients. It is his professional code   
   > of ethics that prevents the man from getting involved with patients on   
   > that level and then pigeon-holes the man as a sex abuser. But take   
   > that aspect away, and there is absolutely no difference between what   
   > happened with Danesh and his posse of willing women and what regularly   
   > happens behind closed doors in many corporate environments. He wasn't   
   > exactly hypnotizing these women or raping them. They were obviously   
   > putting out and so the sex was consensual, regardless that they   
   > changed their minds about it afterwards. I think on the sex abuse   
   > front this guy might have gotten a bum rap.   
      
   I worked for him at Landegg. It was like I was recruited. I remember sitting   
   in his office when I first arrived and it was odd. The woman I was replaced   
   had a career launch from working for him. They had a very odd relationship.   
   Now knowing he had this    
   record, I can see she probably was one of these women.  He was a typical boss   
   misusing power.   
      
   --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05   
    * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)   

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