XPost: alt.philosophy.taoism, alt.buddha.short.fat.guy, alt.philosophy.zen   
   From: absfg_wilson@yahoo.com   
      
   On 10/14/2016 7:18 AM, Julian wrote:   
   > On 14/10/2016 12:00, liaM wrote:   
   >> On 10/14/2016 8:36 AM, noname wrote:   
   >>> Kitty P  wrote:   
   >>>> "noname"  wrote in message news:ntp2bk$koi$6@dont-email.me...   
   >>>>>   
   >>>>> Kitty P  wrote:   
   >>>>>> "noname"  wrote in message news:ntodoe$8q9$6@dont-email.me...   
   >>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>> dagnabit  wrote:   
   >>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>> "Ned Ludd"  wrote in message   
   >>>>>>>> news:pu2dnSimW7_mgGLKnZ2dnUU7-LXNnZ2d@earthlink.com...   
   >>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>> "Tang Huyen"  wrote in message   
   >>>>>>>> news:eaa3691f-3775-5c70-5b47-b3af4d6a37ad@gmail.com...   
   >>>>>>>>> On 10/12/2016 8:07 PM, Ned Ludd wrote:   
   >>>>>>>>>> Holy moly.  So you want to grab women's breasts and put   
   >>>>>>>>>> your hand up their skirts??  (Mentally.)  That's quite an   
   >>>>>>>>>> admission, even for a.b.s.f.g.   
   >>>>>>>>>> I suppose it was only a matter of time. You can only stay   
   >>>>>>>>>> stoic up to a point. Then it all spews out. Like a late-term   
   >>>>>>>>>> volcano.   
   >>>>>>>>>> Any more revelations?   
   >>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>> "You can only stay stoic up to a point" should have been:   
   >>>>>>>>> "You can only stay platonic up to a point."   
   >>>>>>>>> Returning to your post, many women complain that men   
   >>>>>>>>> in authority (like professors and managers) figuratively   
   >>>>>>>>> strip them naked when ogling them up close.   
   >>>>>>>>> Tang Huyen   
   >>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>> But seriously, what do you think women want?   
   >>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>> security, protection and emotional satisfaction.   
   >>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>> These days that often includes every shiny thing that can be   
   >>>>>>> squeezed   
   >>>>>>> into   
   >>>>>>> the credit-limit.   
   >>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>> men just want to get their dicks wet.   
   >>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>> I'd say that's necessary-but-not-sufficient.   
   >>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>   
   >>>>>> I have a great time reading what men think about women. The   
   >>>>>> fascination   
   >>>>>> for   
   >>>>>> me is that women aren't all the same and I read the generalizations   
   >>>>>> with   
   >>>>>> the   
   >>>>>> same good humor as when women talk as if all men are the same. Both   
   >>>>>> those   
   >>>>>> generalizations just aren't universally true in either case. For   
   >>>>>> example, if   
   >>>>>> dinky dunkin' were the only thing in men's motivations - things   
   >>>>>> would be   
   >>>>>> pretty tense with mom, sis, aunties, daughters, and female friends.   
   >>>>>>   
   >>>>>> If I were to name something that I think most women want - it   
   >>>>>> would be   
   >>>>>> simple kindness.   
   >>>>>>   
   >>>>>>   
   >>>>>   
   >>>>> You don't mean actually caring enough that you're the fun part of his   
   >>>>> life,   
   >>>>> do you?   
   >>>>>   
   >>>>> I don't sleep much anymore.  Seldom more than about 4 hours.  Then I   
   >>>>> get   
   >>>>> up   
   >>>>> and do the next thing for a while.  Around dawn when it's about time   
   >>>>> for   
   >>>>> the Old Woman to drag it out of bed (she's a 10-12-hour sleeper), I   
   >>>>> start   
   >>>>> getting a huge erection right on my smile muscles cuz I've   
   >>>>> remembered that   
   >>>>> there's more to life than what doesn't include her.   
   >>>>>   
   >>>>>   
   >>>>   
   >>>> I can see there might not be a lot of kindness in her household.   
   >>>>   
   >>>>   
   >>>>   
   >>>   
   >>> I thought your vision was better. Sad sad.   
   >>>   
   >>   
   >>   
   >> It could be that your description of your old lady dragging it out of   
   >> bed was somewhat derogatory from a woman's point of view.  Might be   
   >> of course this is your manner of being affectionate, uh?  Just like   
   >> African Americans were reported to be calling each other "niggers" and   
   >> other racist expletives while love making, something that most white   
   >> anglo saxon prudes wouldn't understand.  And when you start with   
   >> "getting a huge erection" upon remembering "that there's more to life   
   >> than what doesn't include her."  - What the hell does that mean?  That   
   >> you have your own life in which you really don't give a shit about   
   >> including her? Or what?   
   >   
   > More or less precisely the opposite.   
   >   
   > You are ignoring the key identifier with respect to what is erecting...   
   > his SMILE muscles.   
   >   
   > There is more to his, noname's, life than his interests in things   
   > that DON'T include his wife.   
   >   
   > I read it as an affectionate reference to his happiness   
   > when his wife wakes up in a morning.   
      
   Likewise.   
      
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