XPost: alt.philosophy.taoism, alt.buddha.short.fat.guy, alt.philosophy.zen   
   From: julianlzb87@gmail.com   
      
   On 14/10/2016 15:18, Kitty P wrote:   
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   > "Julian"  wrote in message news:ntqoqj$8ck$1@dont-email.me...   
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   > On 14/10/2016 13:37, Kitty P wrote:   
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   >> "Wilson"  wrote in message news:ntqgvn$cfv$1@dont-email.me...   
   >> On 10/14/2016 7:18 AM, Julian wrote:   
   >>> On 14/10/2016 12:00, liaM wrote:   
   >>>> On 10/14/2016 8:36 AM, noname wrote:   
   >>>>> Kitty P  wrote:   
   >>>>>> "noname"  wrote in message news:ntp2bk$koi$6@dont-email.me...   
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   >>>>>>> Kitty P  wrote:   
   >>>>>>>> "noname"  wrote in message news:ntodoe$8q9$6@dont-email.me...   
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   >>>>>>>>> dagnabit  wrote:   
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   >>>>>>>>>> "Ned Ludd"  wrote in message   
   >>>>>>>>>> news:pu2dnSimW7_mgGLKnZ2dnUU7-LXNnZ2d@earthlink.com...   
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   >>>>>>>>>> "Tang Huyen"  wrote in message   
   >>>>>>>>>> news:eaa3691f-3775-5c70-5b47-b3af4d6a37ad@gmail.com...   
   >>>>>>>>>>> On 10/12/2016 8:07 PM, Ned Ludd wrote:   
   >>>>>>>>>>>> Holy moly.  So you want to grab women's breasts and put   
   >>>>>>>>>>>> your hand up their skirts??  (Mentally.)  That's quite an   
   >>>>>>>>>>>> admission, even for a.b.s.f.g.   
   >>>>>>>>>>>> I suppose it was only a matter of time. You can only stay   
   >>>>>>>>>>>> stoic up to a point. Then it all spews out. Like a late-term   
   >>>>>>>>>>>> volcano.   
   >>>>>>>>>>>> Any more revelations?   
   >>>>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>>>> "You can only stay stoic up to a point" should have been:   
   >>>>>>>>>>> "You can only stay platonic up to a point."   
   >>>>>>>>>>> Returning to your post, many women complain that men   
   >>>>>>>>>>> in authority (like professors and managers) figuratively   
   >>>>>>>>>>> strip them naked when ogling them up close.   
   >>>>>>>>>>> Tang Huyen   
   >>>>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>>>> But seriously, what do you think women want?   
   >>>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>>> security, protection and emotional satisfaction.   
   >>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>> These days that often includes every shiny thing that can be   
   >>>>>>>>> squeezed   
   >>>>>>>>> into   
   >>>>>>>>> the credit-limit.   
   >>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>>> men just want to get their dicks wet.   
   >>>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>> I'd say that's necessary-but-not-sufficient.   
   >>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>> I have a great time reading what men think about women. The   
   >>>>>>>> fascination   
   >>>>>>>> for   
   >>>>>>>> me is that women aren't all the same and I read the generalizations   
   >>>>>>>> with   
   >>>>>>>> the   
   >>>>>>>> same good humor as when women talk as if all men are the same. Both   
   >>>>>>>> those   
   >>>>>>>> generalizations just aren't universally true in either case. For   
   >>>>>>>> example, if   
   >>>>>>>> dinky dunkin' were the only thing in men's motivations - things   
   >>>>>>>> would be   
   >>>>>>>> pretty tense with mom, sis, aunties, daughters, and female friends.   
   >>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>> If I were to name something that I think most women want - it   
   >>>>>>>> would be   
   >>>>>>>> simple kindness.   
   >>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>> You don't mean actually caring enough that you're the fun part of   
   >>>>>>> his   
   >>>>>>> life,   
   >>>>>>> do you?   
   >>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>> I don't sleep much anymore.  Seldom more than about 4 hours.  Then I   
   >>>>>>> get   
   >>>>>>> up   
   >>>>>>> and do the next thing for a while.  Around dawn when it's about time   
   >>>>>>> for   
   >>>>>>> the Old Woman to drag it out of bed (she's a 10-12-hour sleeper), I   
   >>>>>>> start   
   >>>>>>> getting a huge erection right on my smile muscles cuz I've   
   >>>>>>> remembered that   
   >>>>>>> there's more to life than what doesn't include her.   
   >>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>   
   >>>>>> I can see there might not be a lot of kindness in her household.   
   >>>>>>   
   >>>>>>   
   >>>>>>   
   >>>>>   
   >>>>> I thought your vision was better. Sad sad.   
   >>>>>   
   >>>>   
   >>>>   
   >>>> It could be that your description of your old lady dragging it out of   
   >>>> bed was somewhat derogatory from a woman's point of view.  Might be   
   >>>> of course this is your manner of being affectionate, uh?  Just like   
   >>>> African Americans were reported to be calling each other "niggers" and   
   >>>> other racist expletives while love making, something that most white   
   >>>> anglo saxon prudes wouldn't understand.  And when you start with   
   >>>> "getting a huge erection" upon remembering "that there's more to life   
   >>>> than what doesn't include her."  - What the hell does that mean?  That   
   >>>> you have your own life in which you really don't give a shit about   
   >>>> including her? Or what?   
   >>>   
   >>> More or less precisely the opposite.   
   >>>   
   >>> You are ignoring the key identifier with respect to what is erecting...   
   >>> his SMILE muscles.   
   >>>   
   >>> There is more to his, noname's, life than his interests in things   
   >>> that DON'T include his wife.   
   >>>   
   >>> I read it as an affectionate reference to his happiness   
   >>> when his wife wakes up in a morning.   
   >>   
   >>>> Likewise.   
   >>   
   >> The only person who really knows is his wife.   
   >   
   >>> That's no reason for every Tom, Dick and Harriet   
   >>> not to cast aspersions is it? :)   
   >   
   > Like that was the worse thing anyone has said on usenet heh   
      
   Still.. what was the reasoning behind your observation   
   "I can see there might not be a lot of kindness in her household?"   
      
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