XPost: alt.philosophy.taoism, alt.buddha.short.fat.guy, alt.philosophy.zen   
   From: cuddly@mindless.com   
      
   On 10/16/2016 12:50 AM, noname wrote:   
   > Kitty P  wrote:   
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   >> "liaM"  wrote in message news:ntrn00$n73$1@dont-email.me...   
   >>   
   >> On 10/14/2016 5:49 PM, noname wrote:   
   >>> liaM  wrote:   
   >>>> On 10/14/2016 8:36 AM, noname wrote:   
   >>>>> Kitty P  wrote:   
   >>>>>> "noname"  wrote in message news:ntp2bk$koi$6@dont-email.me...   
   >>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>> Kitty P  wrote:   
   >>>>>>>> "noname"  wrote in message news:ntodoe$8q9$6@dont-email.me...   
   >>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>> dagnabit  wrote:   
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   >>>>>>>>>> "Ned Ludd"  wrote in message   
   >>>>>>>>>> news:pu2dnSimW7_mgGLKnZ2dnUU7-LXNnZ2d@earthlink.com...   
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   >>>>>>>>>> "Tang Huyen"  wrote in message   
   >>>>>>>>>> news:eaa3691f-3775-5c70-5b47-b3af4d6a37ad@gmail.com...   
   >>>>>>>>>>> On 10/12/2016 8:07 PM, Ned Ludd wrote:   
   >>>>>>>>>>>> Holy moly.  So you want to grab women's breasts and put   
   >>>>>>>>>>>> your hand up their skirts??  (Mentally.)  That's quite an   
   >>>>>>>>>>>> admission, even for a.b.s.f.g.   
   >>>>>>>>>>>> I suppose it was only a matter of time. You can only stay   
   >>>>>>>>>>>> stoic up to a point. Then it all spews out. Like a late-term   
   >>>>>>>>>>>> volcano.   
   >>>>>>>>>>>> Any more revelations?   
   >>>>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>>>> "You can only stay stoic up to a point" should have been:   
   >>>>>>>>>>> "You can only stay platonic up to a point."   
   >>>>>>>>>>> Returning to your post, many women complain that men   
   >>>>>>>>>>> in authority (like professors and managers) figuratively   
   >>>>>>>>>>> strip them naked when ogling them up close.   
   >>>>>>>>>>> Tang Huyen   
   >>>>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>>>> But seriously, what do you think women want?   
   >>>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>>> security, protection and emotional satisfaction.   
   >>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>> These days that often includes every shiny thing that can be   
   >>>>>>>>> squeezed   
   >>>>>>>>> into   
   >>>>>>>>> the credit-limit.   
   >>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>>> men just want to get their dicks wet.   
   >>>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>> I'd say that's necessary-but-not-sufficient.   
   >>>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>> I have a great time reading what men think about women. The   
   >>>>>>>> fascination   
   >>>>>>>> for   
   >>>>>>>> me is that women aren't all the same and I read the generalizations   
   >>>>>>>> with   
   >>>>>>>> the   
   >>>>>>>> same good humor as when women talk as if all men are the same. Both   
   >>>>>>>> those   
   >>>>>>>> generalizations just aren't universally true in either case. For   
   >>>>>>>> example, if   
   >>>>>>>> dinky dunkin' were the only thing in men's motivations - things would   
   >>>>>>>> be   
   >>>>>>>> pretty tense with mom, sis, aunties, daughters, and female friends.   
   >>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>> If I were to name something that I think most women want - it would   
   >>>>>>>> be   
   >>>>>>>> simple kindness.   
   >>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>> You don't mean actually caring enough that you're the fun part of his   
   >>>>>>> life,   
   >>>>>>> do you?   
   >>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>> I don't sleep much anymore.  Seldom more than about 4 hours.  Then I   
   >>>>>>> get   
   >>>>>>> up   
   >>>>>>> and do the next thing for a while.  Around dawn when it's about time   
   >>>>>>> for   
   >>>>>>> the Old Woman to drag it out of bed (she's a 10-12-hour sleeper), I   
   >>>>>>> start   
   >>>>>>> getting a huge erection right on my smile muscles cuz I've remembered   
   >>>>>>> that   
   >>>>>>> there's more to life than what doesn't include her.   
   >>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>>   
   >>>>>>   
   >>>>>> I can see there might not be a lot of kindness in her household.   
   >>>>>>   
   >>>>>>   
   >>>>>>   
   >>>>>   
   >>>>> I thought your vision was better. Sad sad.   
   >>>>>   
   >>>>   
   >>>>   
   >>>> It could be that your description of your old lady dragging it out of   
   >>>> bed was somewhat derogatory from a woman's point of view.  Might be   
   >>>> of course this is your manner of being affectionate, uh?   
   >>>   
   >>> I'm an old man, she's an old woman, we both think it's humorous that we   
   >>> can   
   >>> now play the "oh my i am old and lame and stupid and don't remember shit"   
   >>> card and get away with it, because, you know, we're old now.  It's a hoot.   
   >>> Sometimes we walk toward each other like cuckoo-clock people when the hour   
   >>> rings, then hug and crack up.  Maybe living at high altitude has twiddled   
   >>> our humor zones here and there, inspired a few brain defects, that kinda   
   >>> thing.   
   >>>   
   >>>> Just like   
   >>>> African Americans were reported to be calling each other "niggers" and   
   >>>> other racist expletives while love making, something that most white   
   >>>> anglo saxon prudes wouldn't understand.   
   >>>   
   >>> Can't really comment on that, i've never been a fly on that wall.  As I   
   >>> remember, all the black folks I've run into had more interesting things to   
   >>> do than hang out with some white geek.  Not counting the ones I've run   
   >>> into   
   >>> late at night in places no sane whitey would go, who were just folks with   
   >>> whom I shared a perspective.  I'm pretty sure that cats also yowl and   
   >>> carry   
   >>> on when they make love, whatever floats their boat is their deal.   
   >>>   
   >>>> And when you start with   
   >>>> "getting a huge erection" upon remembering "that there's more to life   
   >>>> than what doesn't include her."  - What the hell does that mean?   
   >>>   
   >>> You have trouble with double-negatives too?  Some do, some don't.  Note   
   >>> that I get a huge erection OF MY SMILE MUSCLES.  Like Kitty, your brain   
   >>> has   
   >>> been programmed to turn off when it encounters certain phrases and   
   >>> concepts.  Maybe I'm just some old drunk programmer who gave it up for   
   >>> deprogramming and booze, who's to know?   
   >>>   
   >>>> That   
   >>>> you have your own life in which you really don't give a shit about   
   >>>> including her? Or what?   
   >>>>   
   >>>   
   >>> It means that there ain't no sunshine when she's gone, just the next   
   >>> thing,   
   >>> which isn't all that bad, but without her there's hardly any sunshine,   
   >>> it's   
   >>> just next-thing, not fun or unfun, but kind of empty.   
   >>>   
   >>> You know the old pave-parking-lot song, don't know what you've got until   
   >>> it's gone; she came within an inch of dying last year, and I had a few   
   >>> days   
   >>> without her while she was in the hospital; before then I'd been too busy   
   >>> living the life and raising kids and getting over parenthood trauma to   
   >>> grasp the depth of my love for her.   
   >>>   
   >>> Now here I am, in a newsgroup where people supposedly think about things,   
   >>> and I find people who think exactly as they've been taught, in the most   
   >>> politically-correct manner, which seems really close to not-at-all.   
   >>>   
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