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liaM wrote:
> On 10/16/2016 12:50 AM, noname wrote:
>> Kitty P wrote:
>>>
>>>
>>> "liaM" wrote in message news:ntrn00$n73$1@dont-email.me...
>>>
>>> On 10/14/2016 5:49 PM, noname wrote:
>>>> liaM wrote:
>>>>> On 10/14/2016 8:36 AM, noname wrote:
>>>>>> Kitty P wrote:
>>>>>>> "noname" wrote in message news:ntp2bk$koi$6@dont-email.me...
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Kitty P wrote:
>>>>>>>>> "noname" wrote in message news:ntodoe$8q9$6@dont-email.me...
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> dagnabit wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> "Ned Ludd" wrote in message
>>>>>>>>>>> news:pu2dnSimW7_mgGLKnZ2dnUU7-LXNnZ2d@earthlink.com...
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> "Tang Huyen" wrote in message
>>>>>>>>>>> news:eaa3691f-3775-5c70-5b47-b3af4d6a37ad@gmail.com...
>>>>>>>>>>>> On 10/12/2016 8:07 PM, Ned Ludd wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Holy moly. So you want to grab women's breasts and put
>>>>>>>>>>>>> your hand up their skirts?? (Mentally.) That's quite an
>>>>>>>>>>>>> admission, even for a.b.s.f.g.
>>>>>>>>>>>>> I suppose it was only a matter of time. You can only stay
>>>>>>>>>>>>> stoic up to a point. Then it all spews out. Like a late-term
>>>>>>>>>>>>> volcano.
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Any more revelations?
>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>> "You can only stay stoic up to a point" should have been:
>>>>>>>>>>>> "You can only stay platonic up to a point."
>>>>>>>>>>>> Returning to your post, many women complain that men
>>>>>>>>>>>> in authority (like professors and managers) figuratively
>>>>>>>>>>>> strip them naked when ogling them up close.
>>>>>>>>>>>> Tang Huyen
>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>> But seriously, what do you think women want?
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> security, protection and emotional satisfaction.
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> These days that often includes every shiny thing that can be
>>>>>>>>>> squeezed
>>>>>>>>>> into
>>>>>>>>>> the credit-limit.
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> men just want to get their dicks wet.
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> I'd say that's necessary-but-not-sufficient.
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> I have a great time reading what men think about women. The
>>>>>>>>> fascination
>>>>>>>>> for
>>>>>>>>> me is that women aren't all the same and I read the generalizations
>>>>>>>>> with
>>>>>>>>> the
>>>>>>>>> same good humor as when women talk as if all men are the same. Both
>>>>>>>>> those
>>>>>>>>> generalizations just aren't universally true in either case. For
>>>>>>>>> example, if
>>>>>>>>> dinky dunkin' were the only thing in men's motivations - things would
>>>>>>>>> be
>>>>>>>>> pretty tense with mom, sis, aunties, daughters, and female friends.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> If I were to name something that I think most women want - it would
>>>>>>>>> be
>>>>>>>>> simple kindness.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> You don't mean actually caring enough that you're the fun part of his
>>>>>>>> life,
>>>>>>>> do you?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> I don't sleep much anymore. Seldom more than about 4 hours. Then I
>>>>>>>> get
>>>>>>>> up
>>>>>>>> and do the next thing for a while. Around dawn when it's about time
>>>>>>>> for
>>>>>>>> the Old Woman to drag it out of bed (she's a 10-12-hour sleeper), I
>>>>>>>> start
>>>>>>>> getting a huge erection right on my smile muscles cuz I've remembered
>>>>>>>> that
>>>>>>>> there's more to life than what doesn't include her.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> I can see there might not be a lot of kindness in her household.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I thought your vision was better. Sad sad.
>>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> It could be that your description of your old lady dragging it out of
>>>>> bed was somewhat derogatory from a woman's point of view. Might be
>>>>> of course this is your manner of being affectionate, uh?
>>>>
>>>> I'm an old man, she's an old woman, we both think it's humorous that we
>>>> can
>>>> now play the "oh my i am old and lame and stupid and don't remember shit"
>>>> card and get away with it, because, you know, we're old now. It's a hoot.
>>>> Sometimes we walk toward each other like cuckoo-clock people when the hour
>>>> rings, then hug and crack up. Maybe living at high altitude has twiddled
>>>> our humor zones here and there, inspired a few brain defects, that kinda
>>>> thing.
>>>>
>>>>> Just like
>>>>> African Americans were reported to be calling each other "niggers" and
>>>>> other racist expletives while love making, something that most white
>>>>> anglo saxon prudes wouldn't understand.
>>>>
>>>> Can't really comment on that, i've never been a fly on that wall. As I
>>>> remember, all the black folks I've run into had more interesting things to
>>>> do than hang out with some white geek. Not counting the ones I've run
>>>> into
>>>> late at night in places no sane whitey would go, who were just folks with
>>>> whom I shared a perspective. I'm pretty sure that cats also yowl and
>>>> carry
>>>> on when they make love, whatever floats their boat is their deal.
>>>>
>>>>> And when you start with
>>>>> "getting a huge erection" upon remembering "that there's more to life
>>>>> than what doesn't include her." - What the hell does that mean?
>>>>
>>>> You have trouble with double-negatives too? Some do, some don't. Note
>>>> that I get a huge erection OF MY SMILE MUSCLES. Like Kitty, your brain
>>>> has
>>>> been programmed to turn off when it encounters certain phrases and
>>>> concepts. Maybe I'm just some old drunk programmer who gave it up for
>>>> deprogramming and booze, who's to know?
>>>>
>>>>> That
>>>>> you have your own life in which you really don't give a shit about
>>>>> including her? Or what?
>>>>>
>>>>
>>>> It means that there ain't no sunshine when she's gone, just the next
>>>> thing,
>>>> which isn't all that bad, but without her there's hardly any sunshine,
>>>> it's
>>>> just next-thing, not fun or unfun, but kind of empty.
>>>>
>>>> You know the old pave-parking-lot song, don't know what you've got until
>>>> it's gone; she came within an inch of dying last year, and I had a few
>>>> days
>>>> without her while she was in the hospital; before then I'd been too busy
>>>> living the life and raising kids and getting over parenthood trauma to
>>>> grasp the depth of my love for her.
>>>>
>>>> Now here I am, in a newsgroup where people supposedly think about things,
>>>> and I find people who think exactly as they've been taught, in the most
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