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|    liaM to brian mitchell    |
|    Re: Mirror on the wall (was Re: virTue)    |
|    27 Oct 16 21:26:47    |
      XPost: alt.philosophy.taoism, alt.buddha.short.fat.guy, alt.philosophy.zen       From: cuddly@mindless.com              On 10/27/2016 8:47 PM, brian mitchell wrote:       > Tang Huyen wrote:       >       >       >> If one tests others on the basis (on the ground) of one's       >> norms and standards, which may or may not be shared       >> by those to whom one directs one's testing, then one       >> obviously stands one's ground in flinging the tests at       >> them. If one merely takes the norms and standards as       >> proclaimed in self-stated, no uncertain terms and       >> without disclaimers by some others and applies them       >> back to their authors, one does not stand one's ground       >> in criticising them, but stands their ground in criticising       >> them, in closed circle, in their own freely and voluntarily       >> declaimed norms and standards. In a sense, one merely       >> tries to raise their consciousness (as feminists used to       >> say half a century ago) to themselves about their living       >> up to their own norms and standards, or not. One is not       >> trying to shake them (up or away) from their own norms       >> and standards, even less to destroy them, rather one       >> tries to stage a self-confrontation from their own side to       >> help them see themselves in front of their own norms       >> and standards, without injecting one's own norms and       >> standards into the sandbox. One merely holds up a       >> mirror to help them see themselves in front of their own       >> norms and standards, without mixing oneself in the       >> affair. If they want not to be so tested, they can quit       >> proffering their norms and standards, or add       >> disclaimers, or simply live up to them, in self-righteous       >> justice and dignity, to avoid any appearance of       >> hypocrisy, much less any reality of it.       >>       >> The mind can be devilishly clever in devising ways to       >> defend and protect itself, but it can also be ruthlessly       >> honest to itself and open to itself, without need for       >> external help. In both cases, it can be tested as to its       >> sincerity. We here on Usenet are limited to mere words       >> on the screen, but they can yet be quite effective in       >> smoking out the poseurs, fakers and charlatans. A few       >> words will do.       >       > Enough talk already! Let's see some good, old-fashioned, red-blooded       > smoking out of the poseurs, fakers and charlatans.       >                     And don't forget to smoke out voyeurs (and their close cousins,       the exhibitionists)              Seems to me we have one big fat one lurking behind his own words       here above...              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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