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|    The Follies Of Contemporary Psychology    |
|    11 Jul 17 14:09:17    |
      I have had any number of interactions, in any number of ways, with any number       of people involved in psychology.              I discovered that their task is to get people to feel good about their place       on the Titanic as it is about to sink.              Where do I start. Let's start with the biggest pile of crock. Self-esteem.       Rewarding self-esteem does not make better people; it makes worse people. If       you have high standards for yourself, you will find it harder to feel good       about yourself than if you        have low standards for yourself. The person with lower standards will have a       higher self-esteem; the person with higher standards will be a better person.              Another bit of idiocy. “Positive thinking.” Navel-gazing. Stupidity.       Delusion. “Positive thinking” does not begin to solve anything at all. All       it does is blind you to what is going on all around you. I have seen blind       optimism lead people into        hideous situations and all sorts of stupid, ignorant deeds. You fail to       anticipate problems, and you do foolish things. Then you think that the reason       that you are failing is some kind of unconscious negativity. It is not. It is       the stupidity of your        approach. You think that thinking critically is the same thing as thinking       negatively. So then you fail to check for what could go wrong, and you run       into all kinds of unexpected problems.              Personal responsibility – well there is a room for that, but it's not what       is needed at this time. We have polar ice caps melting. We have men and women       killing one another. If people are encouraged to focus only on their personal       lives, these problems        do not get solved. Focusing on such things would get you labeled as not taking       personal responsibility or as being negative or grandiose. However that kind       of focus is what is sorely needed now. Whereas if people are only focusing on       their personal lives,        nobody is going to pay any attention to these things, and our Titanic will       sink.              What else. Supposedly ego is the root of all problems. It is not. Anything       human can work for good or for ill. That is as much the case with ego as it is       the case with the mind or the heart. Yes, the heart can err, and I have seen       that in many situations.        That the mind can both do good things and bad things, everyone knows. As for       the ego, for an alternative view we have Ayn Rand, that the ego is the       fountainhead of all progress. I take neither side in this battle. I neither       extol nor demonize ego. I see        it as capable of going in any given direction, for good, for ill or for a mix.              Oh and, you can never be angry and you can never say anything negative. More       stupidity. When the nuclear reactor in Japan blew up, the Japanese politicians       used that kind of thinking to not tell people what had taken place. They       thought that that was        enlightenment on their part. It was not enlightenment. It was lying. If you       believe that you get what you send out, you will not say the things that need       to be said. This will create a climate of suffocating insincerity. That will       not lead to anything        like enlightenment. It will lead to deception and insincerity all across the       board.              Then there is the idea that you create your reality with your thinking. Yeah       right. Your thinking did not create the Sun. Your thinking did not create       America. Your thinking can influence your life in all sorts of directions.       That does not mean that it        has created your reality.              Am I being negative in saying on this? I sure hope so. These people are       totally full of shit. Their solutions are absolutely wrong, in some cases       precisely wrong. Self-esteem does not better humanity, it worsens it. Positive       thinking does not make you        successful, it makes you blind. And claiming that focusing on anything other       than one's personal life is being grandiose or not being responsible prevents       people from paying attention to the very real problems with which we are faced       now.              What is being pushed as “mental health” is absolutely no such thing. It is       a delusion. And it is time that more people wake up from these and related       delusions and get to work solving the real problems of the world.              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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