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|    emrofsemanon@gmail.com to LGBTQIA Record    |
|    Re: Beaten up for being gay    |
|    14 Aug 17 21:41:06    |
      On Monday, August 14, 2017 at 4:58:33 PM UTC-7, LGBTQIA Record wrote:       > Fifty years ago, gay sex between men in private was        > decriminalised in England and Wales. Despite this, hate crimes        > against gay people have persisted, and the number of attacks        > recorded by police has been rising. There were 7,194 in England        > and Wales in the year to April 2016. Campaigners say this isn't        > the full picture, though, as many victims still don't report        > assaults. Six people affected by hate crimes share their stories.       >        > Warning: This story contains details of violence and images        > which some readers might find upsetting.       >        > James and Dain were enjoying a night out together in Brighton in        > May 2016 when they were followed out of a nightclub and attacked        > on the seafront. The assault has left physical and emotional        > scars.       >        > James: We were at the bar and we got this look from a couple of        > guys from across the dance floor. It takes a lot to make me feel        > uncomfortable but it was just such a weird look they gave us.        > Dain had his arm around me. I don't think they liked that.       >        > Then they started shouting at us. I told Dain we needed to get        > out of the club into a taxi the quickest way possible.       >        > Dain: We left the bar. No-one was about. All of a sudden I heard        > running behind us. There was no way we were going to outrun        > them. They grabbed us from behind and chucked us to the floor. I        > was lying on the pavement and all I could see was James but the        > next thing I saw was a shoe coming towards my face. That knocked        > me completely unconscious.       >        > James: One of the boys started kicking Dain's face really        > rapidly. There was a lot of aggression and shouting of "gay        > boys".       >        > Every time I tried to crawl closer to Dain, I was dragged along        > the pavement. At that point, a taxi drove past and called the        > police. I remember standing up for the first time and Dain        > looked at me and said, "I can't see."       >        > Dain: My eye socket was completely shattered. I had haemorrhages        > in both my eyes and fractures on my cheeks. My tooth was chipped        > and my nose was broken as well. I remember being in hospital and        > kept asking, "Am I going to be able to see again?"       >        > They said, "We can't tell you because everything is so swollen."        > They couldn't even open my eyes.       >        > James and I were very close anyway but spending that much time        > with each other really proved to me how strong our relationship        > is. I'm a very resilient person and I'm not going to live my        > life how someone else wants me to. I'm not going to let anyone        > change that. If anything, this has made me want to be who I am        > even more.       >        > James: It's made him stronger and it's made him not care about        > what other people think and to go out there and be himself even        > more, whereas it's done the opposite to me. It's changed me.        > I've changed my thought process and mindset, how I think, how I        > look, how I speak, who I'm with, where we go and it's sad        > because I remember how we were before it happened and I look at        > us now and it's upsetting because it's them who made this        > happen. That's what's hard to accept.       >        > It's a year since it happened and I thought things would        > probably get easier but they haven't. When we're out and about        > he wants us to look like we're together obviously but I'm scared        > of something similar happening again. It wasn't like that a year        > ago. We didn't go down the street holding hands but I wasn't        > fully aware of us making sure that we weren't seen as a couple.       >        > I couldn't ever forgive the people who attacked us or forget        > what happened. It will stay with me and I'm sure it will stay        > with them for the rest of their lives.       >        > Both attackers, Gage Vye-Parminter and Matthew Howes, pleaded        > guilty to grievous bodily harm and assault and were sentenced to        > seven years in prison.       >        > http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-40643461       >               AFAIC, supermax is too damned good for those no-good-for-anything thugs. :x              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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