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|    Ilya Shambat to All    |
|    Are do-gooders truly arrogant?    |
|    12 Dec 20 22:49:11    |
      From: ibshambat@gmail.com              The do-gooders have a reputation for being arrogant; and I think that this       reputation is ill-merited. The reason is that I know one of the most famous       do-gooders in all of history: Patch Adams. In his interactions with me, he was       not arrogant at all.        Although he is wealthy and famous, he was willing to reach out to me and       answer the questions that I had in a way that in no way made me feel inferior.              I've known any number of other do-gooders; and they likewise did not come       across to me as being arrogant. Rather these were the people who were good at       helping people and were willing to put these abilities to use. Whether it was       in finding jobs,        figuring themselves out or standing up to the people who were bullying them,       these do-gooders were able to meaningfully help other people, including people       from whom they had nothing to expect in return.              Who are do-gooders? Mostly people who have figured out something that other       people haven't figured out and believe that they can help others get to a       better place. Whether through thinking things through, working through       personal issues, having religious        or spiritual revelations, or attaining one or another kind of success, these       are people who have meaningful things to offer.              If you have been given a gift, why not share it with others? If you have an       ability, why not put it to good use? Is it arrogant to want to make things       better for other people? Or is it arrogant instead to force people to stay in       bad situations or bad        thinking, shorn of the attentions of those who can help them come to a better       place?              Really, we see arrogance all around us, and much of it is among people who are       against do-gooders. Wife-beaters, child molesters, and right-wing and Muslim       fundamentalists who think it their job to subjugate others, are more arrogant       than the do-gooders,        and they are not doing anybody a whit of good. Some measure of pride is       healthy. It protects people's rights and liberties from the abusers and       bullies who want to run roughshod over them or enslave them. By the standards       of some Christians intelligence,        creativity, beauty, science, technology, wealth and democracy can all be       regarded as hubris; which means, logically, that it is to arrogance that the       world owes what it has. And that includes the Christian's own big-screen TV,       SUV, hot meals and        representative democracy.              Even if some do-gooders are arrogant, they come nowhere close to owning       arrogance. We see exceptional arrogance among conservatives who think that       they have God on their side and that nobody else does, or that they are       America and that nobody else is. It        is time that things be put into perpsective. Some do-gooders may be arrogant;       but they come nowhere close to owning arrogance, and most arrogance belongs to       people who aren't do-gooders and are in many cases against them.              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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