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|    Ilya Shambat to All    |
|    Fear and Responsibility    |
|    20 Dec 20 15:09:31    |
      From: ibshambat@gmail.com              I have come across an idea, expressed especially in New Age circles, that fear       is at the root of everything that is wrong with the world. I seek to contend       with that idea.              I have known a number of people who were genuinely courageous. These people       never claimed to disown fear. Instead they defined courage as willingness to       act in presence of fear.              I have not been through anything like the Second World War; but neither have       the New Agers. I do not see how their views on this subject have undergone any       kind of reality-testing. I would take advice on the subject from someone who's       been through        experiences that actually test courage. And the people I've known who had such       experiences did not disown fear. They were willing to act, however afraid they       were.              When I was driving through Utah, my car broke down. A Mormon man gave me the       ride to the nearest service station, then he paid for the repairs and walked       out before I could even thank him. I find this to be an amazing behavior. If       this had happened in a        community that had a strong New Age influence, they would have said that the       reason that my car broke down was negativity in my consciousness. Not only       would they not have helped me, but they would have avoided me out of the fear       that I would inflict the        negativity in my consciousness upon them.              Fear – and especially fear-mongering for profit or political gain – can       very well be a bad influence. However in no way is it the only one. Another       major bad influence is beliefs that teach people to be jerks; and this is what       we see of course all        around us, from all sorts of places, including New Age.              Maybe these people found these beliefs useful in adapting to capitalism. But       that does not make such beliefs right. Not only did many of them become as big       jerks as business conservatives, but some of them have outdone them in that       regard; and that has        made a mockery of themselves and liberalism proper.              I have a friend who's had an ongoing migraine since she was 22. Any number of       people believed that she was bringing it about by negative thinking, or that       she was doing it deliberately in order to avoid taking responsibility for her       life. She was being        blamed for something which was in no way her fault – a concept of course       that is alien in New Age circles.              Responsibility is one thing; being a jerk is another. If a Mormon right-winger       can be a better person than we are, boy do we have a lot to learn.              Many of these people started out in the same place as I did. They saw what was       wrong with the world. The solution that they have created however has been a       wrong one. Not only does such a thing deny basic human compassion, but it       creates wrongful        incentives within society. If responsibility is defined in this way, everyone       will want to become a yuppie. Nobody will want to become teachers, scientists,       military, police or anything of the sort – professions that do not pay very       much but whose        contributions are vast. This will starve the country of much of what it needs       and will have negative consequences for the country.              I've been a yuppie myself; and I did not find other yuppies to be more       responsible than scientists and teachers I've known. They made more money, but       the money that they made was based on the work of scientists. The reason that       they could be yuppies was        owed to their teachers and college professors; and the reason that they could       do business at all was owed to the military protecting their country and       police enforcing their property rights. Most of these people do not make very       much money, and by this        definition they are supposedly irresponsible. But the country in general –       and the yuppies in particular – owe greatly to all of the above.              When I was with a woman who had New Age influences, she wanted to do something       rash. I was telling her of the possible consequences of that – the       consequences of which others were warning me as well - and she was telling me       that I was preaching fear.        She finally had her way, and she got exactly the consequences of which I was       warning her – and of which others were warning me. She did not do so through       negativity in her consciousness; she had done a lot of work on herself and did       not have any. She        did this because she did something rash.              I do not see why one emotional state – love, fear, or anything else under       the sun – would be better or more powerful than another. There are however       things that are more powerful than all of the above. This is the case with       nuclear bombs; this is the        case with intelligence; this is the case with money. All of these things are       more powerful than either fear or love. And, just like both fear and love,       these can be wielded both rightfully and wrongfully.              Is fear a bad thing? Anything human can be either good or bad. For that       matter, love can be used for wrong things as well. Cults practice what is       known as love-bombing. Love gets used as a tool of manipulation. Fear of       course can be used as a tool of        manipulation as well. That something can be used for wrong however does not       mean that it is universally wrong in itself. Money can also be used for wrong;       but that does not mean that money as such is a bad thing.              There are many good things that have come out of the New Age. These attitudes       however are wrong. Love is not the same thing as being a bully, and       responsibility is not the same thing as being a jerk. Using positive values       for wrongful ends discredits the        values themselves. Love is a good thing, and responsibility is a good thing.       Neither of the above should be used for wrong.              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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