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|    Ilya Shambat to All    |
|    Feeling People and Thinking People    |
|    22 Jan 21 20:04:04    |
      From: ibshambat@gmail.com              There are many people who think that feelings are for the stupid and for the       weak. This justifies these people in severe emotional and often physical and       interpersonal violence. For such people, their worst nightmare is a       feeling-oriented person with a        brain. Such a person is dangerous to them for two main reasons. One is that he       cannot be credibly labeled as stupid. And the other is that he has the       intelligence to be of help to other feeling-oriented people, whom they want to       trample down and treat        like dirt.              A common claim about such people is that they are manipulative. That term is       manipulative in and of itself. A combination that is actually positive is       being portrayed as something destructive.The actual outcome is competence at       understanding feelings.        This can be used for wrong, but it also can very well be used for right.              Now a man who has such an inclination is deemed in some cases a potential       Hitler. I consider it completely wrong to compare someone who does not want to       kill anyone to someone who started a world war. Hitler may have had such       inclinations; but so have        many much better people, including Clinton, Dostoyevsky, Einstein, Tesla,       Lennon and Blake. By that standard any gray “bureaucrat” is a potential       Eichmann; but I do not see people working for USDA being labeled that way.              Both feelings and thinking can be paths to both wisdom and stupidity. When the       two work together in one head, one of the many things that happen is that they       challenge one another and correct one another's errors. A purely thinking       person will be prone        to the error of coldness and cruelty, and a purely feeling person will be       prone to the error of mindlessness and self-absorption. Two modalities can       challenge, check-and-balance and also feed into one another. One thing that       happens in someone who has        use of both modalities, once again, is that they check one another's capacity       for error. And another thing that happens is that they inform one another with       what one another lacks in itself thus come up frequently with greater wisdom       than either acting        alone.              So that someone who has competence in both feeling and thinking is likely to       come up with quite valuable observations. This, once again, is because he has       competence in two modalities rather than one. Ayn Rand was both very       passionate and excelled at        reasoning, and she came up with brilliant writing. We see the same, once       again, in Dostoyevsky and Blake. They were brilliant people who were also       passionate people. And this combination creates insight that cannot be as       easily found in people who are        either merely brilliant or merely passionate.              It should therefore be encouraged for people to be good both at thinking and       at feeling. This will create people who have a use of two modalities rather       than one. And that will allow them to both check each side's potential for       error and work with one        another to achieve fuller insight. The result will be wiser people and better       decisions made all across the board.              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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